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Grindr () is a location-based
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and
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targeted towards members of the gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer community. It was one of the first geosocial apps for gay men when it launched in March 2009 and has since become the largest and most popular gay mobile app in the world. It is available on iOS and Android devices in both free and
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versions (the latter called Grindr XTRA and Grindr Unlimited). As of December 2021, Grindr has approximately 11 million monthly active users. The app allows members to create a personal profile and use their GPS position to place them on a cascade, where they can browse other profiles sorted by distance and be viewed by nearby and faraway members depending on one's filter settings. Selecting a profile photo in the grid view will display that member's full profile and photos, as well as the option to chat, send a "tap," send pictures, video call, and share one's precise location.


History


Original ownership (2009–2015)

Grindr was launched as an iOS
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on March 25, 2009, by tech entrepreneur
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in
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. The free version displayed 100 profiles of nearby men, while a
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version ($2.99 plus a monthly fee) contained no advertising and broadened the dating pool to 200 guys. Cautious but generally positive reviews of the app circulated through the gay blogosphere on sites such as
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and Joe My God. By August 2009, there were 200,000 total users in Grindr's network. By March 2010, there were 500,000. For its first anniversary on March 25, 2010, Grindr released the app for
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devices. In January 2011, Grindr won the iDate Award for Best Mobile Dating App. On March 7, 2011, Grindr launched the app for Android devices. Along with a free version, users could pay $4.97 for a
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version called Grindr XTRA that featured no banner ads, more profiles to choose from, more "favorites," and
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of messages received while the app is running in the background. In May 2011, ''
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'' dubbed Grindr the "World's Biggest, Scariest Gay Bar". In January 2012, a vulnerability in the app's security software enabled hackers to change the profile picture of a small number of primarily Australian Grindr users to explicit images. Grindr subsequently commenced legal action and made software changes that blocked the site responsible. In January 2012, Grindr won
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's Crunchies Award for Best Location Application and two iDate Awards for Best Mobile Dating App and Best New Technology. In April 2012, Grindr won the About.com Readers' Choice Award for Best Dating App, after 74 percent of readers chose Grindr over Zoosk, SKOUT, Tagged, Tingle, and Are You Interested. In May 2012, the
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named Grindr an Official Honoree in its "Social (Handheld Devices)" category. Fewer than 15% of entries submitted to the
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committee that year received the Official Honoree distinction, which recognizes the best in Internet content, services, and commerce. On June 18, 2012, Grindr announced that it had officially hit 4 million registered users in 192 countries across the globe. On July 22, 2012, after Grindr experienced a technical outage, British tabloid '' The People'' (now '' The Sunday People'') reported that Grindr's crash was due to the volume of usage upon the arrival of Olympic athletes in London for the
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looking for hook-ups. The report caused rumors to circulate regarding the athletes' potentially scandalous sexual behavior. Grindr quashed the rumors the next day and blamed the outage on technical issues not related to server demand. In August 2013, Grindr released an updated version of the app requiring users to verify their accounts by providing a valid email address. Grindr says this was done to reduce
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and improve portability. Critics argued it stripped the app of its
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. On September 30, 2013, Grindr introduced Grindr Tribes, allowing users to identify themselves with a niche group and filter their searches to better find their type. Grindr Tribes include:
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, Clean-Cut, Daddy, Discreet, Geek, Jock, Leather, Otter, Poz, Rugged, Trans, and Twink. In addition to Tribes, Grindr users could now filter by Looking For. As of Grindr's fifth anniversary on March 25, 2014, the app was averaging more than 5 million active monthly users worldwide.


After acquisition (2016–present)

In January 2016, Grindr announced that it had sold a 60% stake in the company for $93 million to a Chinese
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firm, Kunlun Tech Co Ltd (formerly Beijing Kunlun Tech Co Ltd). In January 2018, Kunlun purchased the remainder of the company for $152 million. In March 2018, Grindr introduced a new feature that, if opted into, sends the user a reminder every three to six months to get an HIV test. In August 2018, the Kunlun executive board granted permission for an
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for Grindr. In March 2019, Kunlun started seeking for a buyer of Grindr after the
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(CFIUS) had informed Kunlun that having the app owned by a Chinese company posed a national security risk. This also led Kunlun to halt its plans for an IPO for Grindr. In July 2019, Grindr released Grindr Unlimited, a new
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version of the app that allows subscribers to unsend messages, go Incognito, see unlimited profiles in the cascade, see who has viewed them, see typing status, and use all the premium features of Grindr XTRA. In November 2019, Grindr launched Grindr Web, a free desktop version of the app built for users who prefer to chat from their computer or laptop. Designed for "quick and discreet" chat while at the office, it employs a generic
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interface and mimics computer file folders in place of user profiles. This service has since been discontinued. In March 2020, Kunlun announced that it would sell its 98.59% stake in Grindr to U.S.-based San Vicente Acquisition LLC for $608.5 million. Grindr's senior management and core employees would continue to hold 1.41% of the company's shares after the transaction. In late 2020, Grindr was reported to have about 13 million monthly users. In May 2022, Grindr announced it will go public via SPAC. On November 18, 2022 Grindr went public on the
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.


Original content

In March 2021, it was announced that Grindr was stepping into the "original scripted content space" with a debut web series titled ''Bridesman''. The series, created by John Onieal and directed by Julian Buchanan, went into production the same month and made its world premiere at the Outfest Film Festival on August 14, 2021. The series consists of six episodes and stars Jimmy Fowlie, Sydnee Washington and Shanon DeVido. The show was co-written by John Onieal and Frank Spiro, and produced by Jeremy Truong and Katie White under Truong's company rubbertape.


Grindr for Equality

In February 2012, Grindr formed Grindr for Equality (G4E), a geotargeted political service designed to raise awareness of LGBT equality issues. Ahead of the 2012 U.S. elections, it encouraged users to register to vote and provided information about pro-LGBT candidates in their areas. G4E has since evolved into an international LGBTQ health and human rights program. In November 2019, it granted a total of $100,000 to organizations and activists providing direct services and advocacy to the LGBTQ communities in the Middle East and North Africa.


''Into''

In August 2017, Grindr launched its own in-house digital magazine, ''Into'', which focuses on queer media and culture. It has been noted for publishing an article in November 2018 criticizing Grindr president Scott Chen for comments he made on marriage equality that have been characterized as homophobic. In January 2019, Grindr laid off the editorial staff of ''Into'', citing a desire to " hiftour focus to video content".


Censorship

Grindr is not available in the following territories due to government restrictions:
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,
Syria Syria ( ar, سُورِيَا or سُورِيَة, translit=Sūriyā), officially the Syrian Arab Republic ( ar, الجمهورية العربية السورية, al-Jumhūrīyah al-ʻArabīyah as-Sūrīyah), is a Western Asian country loc ...
,
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,
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and
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. Furthermore, there are also restrictions in whole or in part in these countries:
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,
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, and the
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. In December 2019, Grindr took measures to protect users in countries in which they may be at risk for being LGBT, unveiling new security features for them and automatically disabling their distance feature.


Criticism


Offensive speech and actions

Grindr has been criticized for not taking sufficient action to moderate the display of offensive, racist, and homophobic language by some of its users. In June 2014, when asked about hateful speech on Grindr, the app's creator
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said in an interview with the Israeli newspaper ''
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'' that he "didn't like it" but he " sn'ta sixth grade teacher" and it " sn't hisjob to police such things." The app was criticized in the past for allowing users to sort users by
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, which some thought was
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. This was removed in June 2020 following social media complaints.


User location triangulation

In August 2014, it was reported that Grindr's relative distance measurements could facilitate
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, thereby pinpointing individual users' near-exact location. A proof of concept was published, and more than 2 million detections were performed within a few days. Authorities in
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allegedly used the app to track and arrest gay men. Grindr responded by temporarily disabling distance display globally. In May 2016, a group of computer scientists from
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demonstrated how location pinpointing is still possible in the app even when a user is hiding their distance from public display. By exploiting a novel attack model called colluding-trilateration, locating any targeted user becomes a very easy and cheap task without employing any special hacking technique. The attack model works with any
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app that shows profiles of nearby users in order of proximity, not just Grindr. In May 2022, it was reported that Grindr's user location data has been collected and sold through a digital advertising network since 2017, before Grindr curtailed data sharing with its advertising partners in 2020. Historical data from this period may still be obtainable.


User data privacy

In April 2018, a Norwegian non-profit
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organization reported that Grindr's data bundles sold to third-party companies could potentially contain users' sensitive personal information such as HIV status and HIV testing dates. The discovery generated widespread scrutiny of Grindr's privacy practices. In response, Grindr released a statement stating "Grindr has never sold, nor will we ever sell, personally identifiable user information – especially information regarding HIV status or last test date – to third parties or advertisers. As an industry standard practice, Grindr does work with highly-regarded oftwarevendors to test and optimize our platform. These vendors are under strict contractual terms that provide for the highest level of confidentiality, data security, and user privacy." On January 14, 2020, a report was published by the Norwegian Consumer Council which alleged that Grindr had violated the European Union's General Data Privacy Regulation (GDPR) rules. The council asserted that Grindr has sent user data to at least 135 advertisers. The main concerns of the allegations were for sharing personal information, including users' locations and information about their device. These details could potentially indicate the sexual orientation of a user without their consent. After review from the
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, it was ruled that Grindr was in violation of the GDPR and fined €10 million. In October 2020, a security researcher discovered a vulnerability in the password reset process. Anyone was able to take over an account using only the email address.


Risk to minors

Research has estimated that half of sexually active gay and bisexual adolescents use applications like Grindr. Grindr does not verify the age of users, nor are they required to. A loophole in Section 230 of the
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.


In popular culture


Television


Talk shows

On June 28, 2009 (three months after Grindr's launch), British actor and techie
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appeared on the BBC motoring program '' Top Gear'' and enthusiastically explained Grindr's intricacies to host
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and tried to find another Grindr user in the studio audience. Grindr founder
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later told a media outlet, "The impact f Stephen Fry's mentionwas instant. We had about 10,000 downloads overnight, increasing our base by 50 percent. Within a week we were up to 40,000. Someone once asked me if we paid Stephen Fry to mention us, but we didn't. Apparently one of the guys he works with is gay and showed it to him the week of his appearance."
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became Grindr's most active city in the world, and was so until at least late 2012. In February 2013, journalist Jaime Woo called the ''Top Gear'' mention one of Grindr's warmest mentions in the media. In the July 17, 2014 episode of American
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'' Conan'', host
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and guest Dave Franco create
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profiles and O'Brien jokes, "Whenever you don't see me on television, I'm on Grindr." On February 3, 2015, American actress
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appeared on the American late-night talk show '' Jimmy Kimmel Live'' and revealed that she has used Grindr at the request of her husband
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, due to his growing interest in tech investing. On the February 24, 2015 episode of '' Conan,'' host
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and guest
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made a Grindr profile for O'Brien. Together they browsed many profiles and sent out messages before ultimately asking one man to meet up in person. They headed out in O'Brien's
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and
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-themed "Grindr van" and met up with O'Brien's match in a public place. O'Brien closed the segment by thanking Grindr for the new friendship. In a July 2015 interview, American actor
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was asked if he was concerned that people would confuse his upcoming leading role in the legal comedy television series '' The Grinder'' for being on the app Grindr. Lowe answered, "It could be a good thing! I'm very current. I'm culturally significant. I could be on the Grindr app." In November 2015, Lowe appeared on '' Jimmy Kimmel Live'' and advertised the Grindr app as "a neat networking app that lets guys who like watching '' The Grinder'' meet with other guys in their area who also like watching ''The Grinder'', so they can meet up to watch ''The Grinder'' together!" He explained, "You just open the app and scroll through hundreds of men nearby who share your passion for bold network comedy." Lowe quickly found a match in the app and proclaimed "Oh this guy's DTF. So am I! Definite Television Fan," he clarifies. When his new acquaintance arrives in a leather vest and leather shorts, carrying
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and a
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, it becomes clear that the two had very different intentions for their evening together. "So," Lowe says, "if you like ''The Grinder'', download the app today, and you, too, can make a new friend."


Scripted shows

In the March 21, 2013 episode of American
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'' Glee'' titled " Guilty Pleasures," main character Santana mentions Grindr to lead character Kurt after he says he ordered a "boyfriend pillow"
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. In January 2014, HBO debuted ''
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'', an American
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television series that followed the professional and personal lives of three
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close friends living in
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. The series name is based on a term that originated in online platforms like Grindr to state or ask whether one is cruising for a hookup. Grindr was commonly referenced in the series, which ran for two seasons until its finale on March 22, 2015. In September 2019, ''
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'' ranked ''Looking'' among the "100 Greatest TV shows of the 21st century". In the October 23, 2014 episode of American legal thriller television series '' How to Get Away with Murder'', main character Connor (an openly gay intern at a high-profile
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) uses a gay hookup app called "Humpr" (a sly reference to real-life Grindr) to goad a
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to admit that he is pro-cop in order to get him removed from the jury of a case he is trying. In February 2016, an episode of the American animated sitcom ''
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'' featured main character
Peter Griffin Peter Löwenbräu Griffin, born Justin Peter Griffin, is a fictional character and the main protagonist of the American animated sitcom ''Family Guy''. He is voiced by the series' creator, Seth MacFarlane, and first appeared on television, alon ...
joining Grindr to connect with guys to feed him grinder sandwiches through bathroom glory holes. In October 2016, two separate episodes of '' How to Get Away with Murder'' reference Grindr. Connor, the series' openly gay main character, offers a piercing critique of the racism, body shaming, and anti-femme rhetoric prevalent on "Humpr," the show's stand-in for Grindr. In the next episode, Connor has thrown himself fully into Humpr, which he uses shamelessly in his boyfriend's presence. While his colleagues investigate a case they're working on, Connor leaves to go meet two young men for a hookup. He checks both their IDs to confirm they are of legal age before having sex. In the October 26, 2017 episode of ''How to Get Away with Murder'', Connor turns to Humpr to look for a hookup after his boyfriend lets him down by having to stay at work overtime. Journalist Anthony Gilét wrote of the scene, "After dropping out of law school, losing his job, being
disowned Disownment occurs when a parent renounces or no longer accepts a child as a family member, usually due to reprehensible actions leading to serious emotional consequences. Different from giving a child up for adoption, it is a social and interpers ...
by his father for his
same-sex relationship A same-sex relationship is a romantic or sexual relationship between people of the same sex. ''Same-sex marriage'' refers to the institutionalized recognition of such relationships in the form of a marriage; civil unions may exist in countrie ...
, and now feeling disappointment after having to scrap the romantic date he carefully set up for his love, Connor's naturally feeling a little lost—before turning to that accessible little app on his phone. This not only demonstrates how instantaneous sex can be another form of self-destruction, but how we use sex as a
coping Coping refers to conscious strategies used to reduce unpleasant emotions. Coping strategies can be cognitions or behaviours and can be individual or social. Theories of coping Hundreds of coping strategies have been proposed in an attempt to ...
mechanism, (and effectively, how easy it is to cheat on your boyfriend after a minor dispute)." The Humpr interface is shown on-screen and looks nearly identical to Grindr's. Connor chats with a man on the app about the size of his penis, and minutes later they meet up for sex. In the October 25, 2017 episode of American
teen drama In film and television, drama is a category or genre of narrative fiction (or semi-fiction) intended to be more serious than humorous in tone. Drama of this kind is usually qualified with additional terms that specify its particular super-g ...
television series '' Riverdale'', openly gay main character Kevin is caught
cruising for sex Cruising for sex, or cruising, is walking or driving about a locality, called a cruising ground, in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety. Published: 11-14-2007 Published: 9-21-2005 Article from NYT about ...
in the woods by two of his friends, Betty and
Moose The moose (in North America) or elk (in Eurasia) (''Alces alces'') is a member of the New World deer subfamily and is the only species in the genus ''Alces''. It is the largest and heaviest extant species in the deer family. Most adult ma ...
. Betty screams at him that he should have "more respect" for himself, shaming him for his risky lifestyle choices. Kevin yells back, "You act like we've got the same set of options!" and complains that he does not have a way to express his sexual desires. Betty asks, "Can't you just use Grind'em like every other gay guy?" (referencing the real-life Grindr app), and Kevin answers that he hates using Grind'em because people never look the same in person as they do online. Moose, the school's popular hot jock and
closeted ''Closeted'' and ''in the closet'' are metaphors for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender and other (LGBTQ+) people who have not disclosed their sexual orientation or gender identity and aspects thereof, including sexual identity and huma ...
bisexual Bisexuality is a romantic or sexual attraction or behavior toward both males and females, or to more than one gender. It may also be defined to include romantic or sexual attraction to people regardless of their sex or gender identity, whic ...
who used to hook up with Kevin, sounds off: "Guys like us, in a town like Riverdale, we don't have a lot of options. So, even if something bad could happen, we go for it. Because what if, for 10 minutes, or maybe even just for two minutes, we're not alone?" Journalist Anthony Gilét called the scene "deep" and wrote, "This really highlights how a lot of men within the gay community feel.
Loneliness Loneliness is an unpleasant emotional response to perceived isolation. Loneliness is also described as social paina psychological mechanism which motivates individuals to seek social connections. It is often associated with a perceived lack ...
is so unbelievably common, that it's no wonder we meet up with strangers for a brief reenactment of intimacy. And it even highlights why many of us are not as careful as we should be – especially in the height of Grindr-crime – because we're spurred by the fear of loneliness/desire for
affection Affection or fondness is a "disposition or state of mind or body" that is often associated with a feeling or type of love. It has given rise to a number of branches of philosophy and psychology concerning emotion, disease, influence, and sta ...
." The scene closes with Betty resolving to snitch to Kevin's dad (the town sheriff) about Kevin's cruising, thus ending their friendship.


Reality shows

The June 30, 2014 episode of American
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''
Judge Judy ''Judge Judy'' is an American arbitration-based reality court show presided over by former Manhattan Family Court Judge Judith Sheindlin. The show featured Sheindlin as she adjudicated real-life small-claims disputes within a simulated courtr ...
'' involved a case between a 47-year-old plaintiff and a 23-year-old defendant who had met through Grindr. Judge Judy dismissed the lawsuit, ruling that the money given to the defendant was a gift rather than a loan. In the September 2014
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television special A television special (often TV special, or rarely television spectacular) is a standalone television show which may also temporarily interrupt episodic programming normally scheduled for a given time slot. Some specials provide a full range of e ...
''Being Tyler Posey'', American actor Tyler Posey jokes that he has a Grindr account. In the April 21, 2015 episode of American
reality television Reality television is a genre of television programming that documents purportedly unscripted real-life situations, often starring unfamiliar people rather than professional actors. Reality television emerged as a distinct genre in the early 1 ...
series '' The Real Housewives of New York City'', cast member Luann de Lesseps informs fellow cast member
Ramona Singer Ramona Singer (née Mazur; born November 18, 1956) is an American television personality, businesswoman, and author. She is best known as a main cast member on the reality television series ''The Real Housewives of New York City'', in which she ha ...
that Singer's estranged husband is active on dating sites. Singer says it does not bother her, but asks Luann, "What's the gay site called?" Luann replies, "Grindr?" Singer then asserts, "Maybe if he was on Grindr, that would bother me." Bravo, the TV network that airs the series, teased viewers with a clip of the exchange to entice them to tune in to the episode. In a June 2017 interview,
openly gay Coming out of the closet, often shortened to coming out, is a metaphor used to describe LGBT people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation, romantic orientation, or gender identity. Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of ...
former cast member Milan Christopher of the American reality television series '' Love & Hip Hop: Hollywood'' said that he has met guys using Grindr. In the December 18, 2017 episode of American reality television series '' Love & Hip Hop: New York'', cast member Jonathan makes a
catfish Catfish (or catfishes; order Siluriformes or Nematognathi) are a diverse group of ray-finned fish. Named for their prominent barbels, which resemble a cat's whiskers, catfish range in size and behavior from the three largest species alive, ...
Grindr account to catch his boyfriend
cheating Cheating generally describes various actions designed to subvert rules in order to obtain unfair advantages. This includes acts of bribery, cronyism and nepotism in any situation where individuals are given preference using inappropriate crit ...
. In April to August 2018, a recurring storyline on the third season of American reality television series '' The Real Housewives of Potomac'' involved a cast member's husband's alleged
extramarital affair An affair is a sexual relationship, romantic friendship, or passionate attachment in which at least one of its participants has a formal or informal commitment to a third person who may neither agree to such relationship nor even be aware of ...
with a young man on Grindr.


Films

In the November 2013 Netflix original comedy '' Aziz Ansari: Buried Alive'', American comedian
Aziz Ansari Aziz Ismail Ansari (; born February 23, 1983) is an American actor and stand-up comedian. He is known for his role as Tom Haverford on the NBC series '' Parks and Recreation'' (2009–2015) and as creator and star of the Netflix series '' Mas ...
jokes about how Grindr's user-friendly design makes casual sex so accessible for gay men but employing the same mechanism for heterosexual people would make women feel too unsafe for it to work. He says Grindr "might be the most incredible technology that's come out in islifetime." In the July 2015 American
romantic comedy Romantic comedy (also known as romcom or rom-com) is a subgenre of comedy and slice of life fiction, focusing on lighthearted, humorous plot lines centered on romantic ideas, such as how true love is able to surmount most obstacles. In a typic ...
film '' Trainwreck'' directed by
Judd Apatow Judd Apatow (; born December 6, 1967) is an American comedian, director, producer, and screenwriter, best known for his work in comedy and drama films. He is the founder of Apatow Productions, through which he produced and directed the films ' ...
and written by
Amy Schumer Amy Beth Schumer (born June 1, 1981) is an American stand-up comedian and actress. She ventured into comedy in the early 2000s before appearing as a contestant on the fifth season of the NBC reality competition series ''Last Comic Standing'' ...
, actor
John Cena John Felix Anthony Cena ( ; born April 23, 1977) is an American part-time professional wrestler, actor, and former rapper. He is currently signed to WWE. Widely regarded as one of the greatest professional wrestlers of all time, he is tied ...
plays a
closeted ''Closeted'' and ''in the closet'' are metaphors for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender and other (LGBTQ+) people who have not disclosed their sexual orientation or gender identity and aspects thereof, including sexual identity and huma ...
bisexual Bisexuality is a romantic or sexual attraction or behavior toward both males and females, or to more than one gender. It may also be defined to include romantic or sexual attraction to people regardless of their sex or gender identity, whic ...
character who mentions his use of Grindr when he gets into a verbal altercation with a man in a movie theater. After shouting several comedic gay innuendos at the man, Cena yells, "Fuck you,
Tone Loc Anthony Terrell Smith (born March 3, 1966), better known by his stage name Tone Lōc (), is an American rapper, actor, and producer. He is known for his raspy voice, his hit songs " Wild Thing" and " Funky Cold Medina", for which he was nomin ...
! You wanna take it to the parking lot? Fine! If you can't find me, I'll be the closest one on Grindr!" and then storms out of the theater. In the February 2019 American
romantic comedy Romantic comedy (also known as romcom or rom-com) is a subgenre of comedy and slice of life fiction, focusing on lighthearted, humorous plot lines centered on romantic ideas, such as how true love is able to surmount most obstacles. In a typic ...
film '' What Men Want'' directed by
Adam Shankman Adam Michael Shankman (born November 27, 1964) is an American film director, producer, writer, dancer, author, actor, and choreographer. He was a permanent judge on season 6–7 of the television program ''So You Think You Can Dance''. He began h ...
, actress
Taraji P. Henson Taraji Penda Henson ( ; born September 11, 1970) is an American actress. She studied acting at Howard University and began her Hollywood career in guest roles on several television shows before making her breakthrough in '' Baby Boy'' (2001). Sh ...
plays a character who accidentally gains the psychic power to hear men's inner thoughts. Working as the only woman at an otherwise all-male
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company, she especially wields her new power to help advance her career. In one scene, one of her stereotypical "manly man" coworkers debates whether to join
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or Grindr.


Music

American singer
Madonna Madonna Louise Ciccone (; ; born August 16, 1958) is an American singer-songwriter and actress. Widely dubbed the " Queen of Pop", Madonna has been noted for her continual reinvention and versatility in music production, songwriting, a ...
partnered with Grindr to promote her thirteenth studio album ''
Rebel Heart ''Rebel Heart'' is the thirteenth studio album by American singer-songwriter Madonna, released by Interscope Records on March 6, 2015. She worked on the album throughout 2014, co-writing and co-producing it with various musicians, including Di ...
'' in 2015. A contest was held, and five of the app's users were selected for an exclusive interview with the artist. The contest required re-creating the artwork for ''Rebel Heart'' and posting it as a Grindr profile picture. Other winners received signed copies of the album. Joe Stone from ''The Guardian'' considered this a "savvy" promotional method, allowing Madonna to connect directly with her gay audience. In a December 2016 interview, American rapper
Eminem Marshall Bruce Mathers III (born October 17, 1972), known professionally as Eminem (; often stylized as EMINƎM), is an American rapper and record producer. He is credited with popularizing Hip hop music, hip hop in Middle America (United Sta ...
joked that he has met people from Grindr for dates. On January 24, 2020, Eminem took the
social media Social media are interactive media technologies that facilitate the creation and sharing of information, ideas, interests, and other forms of expression through virtual communities and networks. While challenges to the definition of ''social me ...
#DollyPartonChallenge and shared a semi-nude picture of himself as his Grindr profile photo. Heterosexual takers of the challenge customarily shared their
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profile photo. On March 30, 2021, transgender singer Amina Banks released a track entitled "Grindr".


Books

Several books have been published focusing on a variety of topics concerning Grindr; these include the influence of the app on society and how to navigate and use the app.


Sport

Grindr is the official sponsor of French
Top 14 The Top 14 () is a professional rugby union club competition that is played in France. Created in 1892, the Top 14 is at the top of the national league system operated by the French National Rugby League, also known by its French initialism o ...
rugby club Biarritz Olympique. In 2022, Grindr became the sponsor for Travis Shumake, the first ever openly gay man to compete in a National Hot Rod Association
drag racing Drag racing is a type of motor racing in which automobiles or motorcycles compete, usually two at a time, to be first to cross a set finish line. The race follows a short, straight course from a standing start over a measured distance, most ...
competition.


See also

* List of LGBT social networking services *
Timeline of online dating services This timeline of online dating services also includes broader events related to technology-assisted dating (not just online dating). Where there are similar services, only major ones or the first of its kind are listed. Dominance of online dati ...
* Homosocialization *
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* Blendr * Spoonr *
Stephen Port Stephen Port (born 22 February 1975) is a British convicted serial rapist and serial killer. He is responsible for the murder of four men and for committing multiple rapes. Port received a life sentence with a whole life order on 25 November 20 ...
, known as The Grindr Killer


References


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