Caroline Emelia Stephen (8 December 1834 – 7 April 1909), also known as Milly Stephen, was a British philanthropist and a writer on Quakerism. Her niece was

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Life

Stephen was born on 8 December 1834 at Kensington Gore on Hyde Park Gate in London. She was the daughter of the

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Sir James and Jane Catherine (born Venn) Stephen. Her father was the permanent under-secretary for the colonies. Her brothers were the jurist Sir

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and Sir

Leslie Stephen Sir Leslie Stephen (28 November 1832 – 22 February 1904) was an English author, critic, historian, biographer, and mountaineer, and the father of Virginia Woolf and Vanessa Bell. Life Sir Leslie Stephen came from a distinguished intellect ...

(1832–1904) who was the first editor of the

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.A.G.L. Shaw, "Stephen, Sir James (1789–1859)", ''Oxford Dictionary of National Biography'', Oxford University Press, 2004; online edn, Jan 200
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. Stephen is said to have had a love affair that ended badly in 1857. According to her brother, Leslie, her lover left and died in India. However despite Leslie's expertise as a biographer there does not appear to be any corroboration for this account.Caroline Stephen and her niece, Virginia Woolf
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Good works and becoming a Quaker

Stephen was moved to charitable works in the 1860s and she published
The Service of the Poor
in 1871 after discussing her hypothesis with

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. She also began discussions of faith with Robert Were Fox. She decided to become a Quaker and she left behind her parents' evangelical Christianity. She looked after her mother until she died when she co-founded the ''

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'' with her cousin, Sara Stephen (other claims exist). In 1877, she arranged for a building for women to live in Chelsea. This was Hereford Buildings and it was located on what would become Old Church Street. In 1879 she had joined the Quakers and she had become a strong supporter of their views. In 1890 she published ''Quaker Strongholds'' which set forth her point of view and was well received as a "Quaker classic" even 100 years after publication. This is despite her brother's description of the book as "another little work of hers". Virginia Woolf grew up with her father calling his sister "Silly Milly" or "The Nun". Her book made her the most well known female Quaker amongst those who read books. She was an anti-suffragist as she considered that the silent majority of women did not want a change to the status quo. Her point of view became slightly more popular after her death as the more militant suffragettes made it difficult for non-violent Quakers to support the popular feminist point of view.

Cambridge

Stephen moved to Cambridge in 1895 where she was able to witness to students at Newnham and

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about the beliefs of Quakers. She was assisted at Newnham by her niece, Katharine Stephen, who was the principal of Newnham College.Margaret M. Jensen, "Stephen, Caroline Emelia (1834–1909)", ''Oxford Dictionary of National Biography'', Oxford University Press, 2004; online edn, May 201
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/ref> When Virginia Woolf had a breakdown after her father died in 1904, she recovered at a friend's home and then spent time with her aunt in Cambridge. Stephen died at her home in Cambridge on 7 April 1909. She left a bequest of £2,500 to her niece Virginia Woolf. This money was credited by her niece as pivotal to her career, as it freed Woolf to be able to concentrate on thinking; the money, she said, "unveiled the sky to me"''

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''
Chapter Two
, Virginia Woolf, Retrieved 10 December 2015 (see ''

''). In 1911 Katharine Stephen published ''The Vision of Faith and other Essays'' which contained Caroline Stephen's writing.

References

External links

Works by Caroline Emelia Stephen
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