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Alexander Comstock Kirk (November 26, 1888 – March 23, 1979) was an American lawyer and diplomat.


Early years

Alexander Comstock Kirk was born in
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, on November 26, 1888, the son of James Alexander Kirk (1840–1907)Chicago Historical Society, ''Charter, Constitution, By-laws, Membership List, Annual Report'' (1903), 286
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accessed January 25, 2011. James Alexander Kirk was a Chicago Alderman in 1876-7 and influential in the creation of the city's paid Fire Department following the
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of 1871.
and Clara Comstock (1851–1936). His family lived in
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. Their wealth derived from one of America's largest soap manufacturing concerns, which was founded by Kirk's grandfather in
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, in 1839, relocated to Chicago in 1860, and capitalized as James S. Kirk & Co. in 1900. James Alexander Kirk was a director of the company. Its two national brands were "American Family" for laundry and "Juvenile" for the bath. Kirk was "fat" and "unhappy" in childhood and enjoyed drawing. At age 9, he attended the
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until his family decided he was too young to be drawing nude models. He was then sent to work incognito in a soap factory until his identity was discovered. He was then tutored at home for half the year by Hughell Fosbroke, future head of the
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of New York, spending the other half traveling in Europe with his mother and sister. Kirk attended the
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for one year and then
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, where he excelled in physics and graduated in 1909. He appeared with the Yale University Dramatic Association in 1908 and 1909. Kirk's father died of a heart attack in 1907. He next spent two years at the School of Political Sciences in Paris. In order to fulfill his mother's promise to his late father, he earned his law degree from
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in 1914. He was admitted to the Illinois bar. He joined the board of the family business at a salary of $10,000 a year. Kirk had two sisters, Gertrude 24 years his senior and Margaret his near contemporary. His sister Margaret married Albert Billings Ruddock in New York's
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in March 1912. The couple left for Berlin following the ceremony. Ruddock was third secretary of the American Embassy in Berlin in 1913, when Mrs. Kirk visited the couple there. In 1954 Ruddock became chairman of the board of trustees of
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, where an undergraduate residence hall was named for him in 1960.


Diplomatic career

Kirk joined the American Diplomatic Service on March 6, 1915. In 1916, he was transferred from his post as secretary of the embassy in Berlin to a position in Constantinople. Kirk served as private secretary to the Secretary of State during
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and accompanied him in that position to the 1919 Paris Peace Conference. He then lived in "a commodious old house in Georgetown with his mother to act as hostess on the occasion of his entertainments", until posted to
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as secretary of the embassy. He managed the State Department budget for a time in the 1920s, and later said he thought it "an obligation" to spend the entire amount in order to support the argument for additional appropriations. Kirk was counselor of the U.S. Embassy in Rome in 1932. His mother was presented to Queen Elena of Italy on March 9, 1932. She lived in Rome during his service there, and Kirk entertained important guests at her home, the Villa Spada on the
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. Even in 1930, long before rising to ambassadorial rank, he entertained lavishly. He hosted an opera party for Mrs. William Randolph Hearst on her 1930 tour of Europe. Kirk was assigned to Moscow as embassy counselor and consul general effective March 18, 1938, where he was the senior official in the nine-month interim between the service of Ambassadors Davies and Steinhardt.George W. Baer, ''A Question of Trust, The Origins of U.S.-Soviet Diplomatic Relations: The Memoirs of Loy. W, Henderson'' (Stanford, CA: Hoover Institution Press, 1986), 313. "In my opinion", wrote Loy W. Henderson, "the embassy never functioned better than it did during the nine months that he was in charge of it." He served as
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in Berlin beginning in May 1939 and became the senior officer when the American ambassador,
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, was recalled to protest the anti-Jewish attacks of ''
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''. Though his status was too low to allow access to important officials in the German government, he communicated with them by staging conversations close to a device the Germans used to eavesdrop on his conversations. ''
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'' called him "adroit" in his "uncomfortable post". The recall of Wilson as a way of protesting ''Kristallnacht'' greatly offended the Nazi regime, and senior German officials generally snubbed Kirk to show their disapproval.Asher, Abraham ''Was Hitler A Riddle?'', p.194 The American historian Abraham Asher described Kirk's dispatches from Berlin as generally accurate, though his lack of high-level contacts limited his sources of information. He developed contacts with Germans who opposed the Nazi regime and became convinced, in spite of Germany's early victories, that the war would end badly for Germany. Discussing with noted dissident
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the need for Germany to suffer complete defeat with no one to blame but its Nazi leaders, he said: "Do you want to know my solution? It's a flood without an ark." During the war, in 1943, Moltke twice tried without success to contact Kirk, whom he trusted as an intermediary between the German opposition and the Allies. In August 1939, the journalist Louis P. Lochner showed Kirk the text of the Obersalzberg speech, asking him to transmit back to Washington, but Kirk was not interested, leading Louchner to turn next to the British diplomat George Ogilvie-Forbes who did indeed transmit it to London. During the Danzig crisis, Kirk found playing himself a bit role. On 24 August 1939, President Franklin D. Roosevelt sent telegrams to both
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and President
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appealing to them to find a compromise to end the crisis. Shirer, William ''
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'', p 560.
Hitler chose not to reply, but Mościcki wrote back that his nation was not the one "formulating demands and demanding concessions", but stated he willing to open negotiations with the ''Reich'' on the status of the Free City of Danzig (modern Gdańsk, Poland). As Hitler continued to refuse to answer Roosevelt's telegrams, Kirk was sent to see ''der Fűhrer'' with a copy of Mościcki's reply. As Hitler refused to see him, he instead met on the evening of 26 August with the state secretary of the ''Auswärtiges Amt'', Baron
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.Shirer, William ''The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich'', p 561 Kirk argued to Weizsäcker that since for the first time, the Poles were willing to open talks on changing the status of Danzig, which might allow Danzig to "go home to the ''Reich''", that this represented a potential breakthrough on finding a peaceful solution to the crisis. Weizsäcker replied he would pass on Kirk's note for "the consideration of the Foreign Minister", and was otherwise evasive about what his government was planning to do in response. Kirk served briefly as embassy counselor in Rome before becoming minister to Egypt in 1941, when ''Time'' magazine described him as "smooth, spare". From March 29, 1941, to March 29, 1944, Kirk served as Ambassador to Egypt, first as head of the U.S. Legation and then of the embassy. King
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had a strong dislike of homosexuals, and Kirk's relations with the king were distant.Stadiem, William ''Too Rich'', p.216 By contrast, Kirk was close to Farouk's archenemy, the British ambassador, Sir
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, which made for further difficulties as Kirk tended to back Lampson in his dealings with the king. Kirk took the view that it was crucial that the British 8th Army stop the advance of the German ''Afrika Korps'', and given Farouk's pro-Axis sympathies, Lampson's high-handed treatment of the king was necessary. He advised the State Department in 1941 that a Jewish state "is incapable of realization in the future unless imposed by force on an unwilling native population." Under Secretary of State
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did not share his assessment and did not forward Kirk's views to the White House. Drawing on his experience with
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and antisemitism in Germany, Kirk expanded the embassy's coverage of Radio Berlin's Arabic-language broadcasts, providing complete translations of what came to be known as the "Axis Broadcasts in Arabic" along with his weekly analysis from 1941 to 1944, which Hull circulated widely. He dissected the Nazis' manipulation of anti-colonial, anti-Jewish, and anti-Bolshevik sentiment and their charges that Roosevelt and Churchill were being manipulated by their Jewish supporters. At the beginning of his Cairo tenure, Kirk focused on the strategic necessity of Allied victory in the Middle East because it would be impossible to counter the Nazi's exploitation of an Axis victory in its propaganda. Once the Allies won control of the region, he stressed political analysis and repeatedly underscored the critical role of the Egyptian capital in Arab nationalism. As Kirk looked to the end of the war, he anticipated a post-colonial world in which nations operated freely in a free enterprise environment, unlike Secretary of State
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who expected the persistence of traditional spheres of influence, notably that of Great Britain in Egypt. While posted to Cairo, Kirk kept one house in the city for lunch, another near the pyramids for dinner and sleeping, and a houseboat on the Nile. As ambassador, Kirk was noted for his eccentricities such as wearing lavender silk tuxedos; maintaining a houseboat on the Nile flamboyantly decorated with white ostrich feathers and a framed picture of his mother with candles burning around it; and his insistence on only drinking milk from an Egyptian water buffalo he adopted and named after his mother. Even through Kirk was as openly gay as it was possible to be in the 1940s, he was popular with the diplomatic corps in Cairo, who liked him for his charm, and his frequent parties on his houseboat were always well attended. He hosted
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,
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, and
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at the second house for the November 1943
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. He has been described as "an archeological dilettante" who liked to lecture his guests as they gazed at the pyramids.
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claimed to have flummoxed him by pre-empting his performance by asking: "Mr. Ambassador, what ''are'' those strange-looking objects?" Along with several military men Kirk devised the successful plan to attack Rommel's communications instead of his ground forces. He later received the United States of America Typhus Commission Medal for his support of the commission's work during his time in Egypt. While resident in Cairo, Kirk was also accredited to the government-in-exile of Greece until November 13, 1941, and to Saudi Arabia until July 18, 1943. Kirk was appointed U.S. representative on the Allied Advisory Council for Italy, with the rank of ambassador, on April 4, 1944. He was appointed Ambassador to Italy on November 30, 1944, and in January 1945 became the first ambassador of any country to present his credentials to the new Italian government. Upon his appointment, ''Time'' gave him the title "suave Career Man". He resigned in 1946. When the American
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produced an Italian-language publication, Kirk insisted it be labeled propaganda to maintain a clear distinction between what Italians were accomplishing for themselves or not. In August 1945, he received petitions from Soviet prisoners of war, taken by the Germans and liberated by Allied forces. They wrote to him in his role as political advisor to
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(SHAEF) and claimed the status of "political refugees" and asked "in the name of humanity" not to be repatriated to the Soviet Union. Kirk wrote to Secretary of State Byrnes seeking guidance, a diplomatic way of expressing his reservations about the repatriation policy. He was instructed to make certain none of the prisoners was actually from
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or the
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and to proceed with the repatriations. Kirk was long famous for entertaining and continued even when forced to operate in Rome "under a wartime minimum". Six or eight guests joined him for lunch or dinner, often many more. One Friday lunch he hosted about 20 enlisted men. Though some involved in recruiting the guests worried that a Negro corporal might not be well received, Kirk gave him the place of honor on his right. ''Life'' described him near the end of his career: "To call Kirk an ornament of the State Department is almost a libelous understatement. ... Kirk's true value resides in the fact that he is an American who, far from being an innocent abroad, knows Europe infinitely better than most Europeans. This makes him almost unique in the current roster of U.S. foreign representatives in the diplomatic, charitable, or didactic spheres. Kirk's career should be studied in detail, like ''
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''." ''
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'' in July 1946 called him "foppish, intelligent, and very rich". Kirk predicted in 1945 that future diplomats should be technical experts "chosen for the ability not only to diagnose economic, industrial and political trends, but also to adjust their dislocations before they can start wars." He lamented the willingness of governments to spend on wars far more than on the diplomacy that might prevent them. A few years after Kirk's retirement, as Senator
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launched a campaign against suspected homosexuals in government, one investigator's 1948 report charged that State Department employees
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and Charles W. Thayer "were very close personal friends of former Ambassador Alexander Kirk who is not now in the service but who had a very bad reputation of being a homosexual and certainly protected a lot of homosexual people."


Personal life

In the 1920s, when he was counselor to the American Embassy in Rome, Kirk remodeled a significant building in Georgetown, the Robinson house, at the corner of Wisconsin Avenue and R Street and "filled it with furniture, rugs, hangings and objects of art brought from the Orient." In 1942 he sold this estate, including its "elaborate formal gardens, outsize ballroom, marble-floored billiard room, and swimming pool", to
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, mining heiress and owner of the
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. While posted to Berlin, he lived in an "enormous mansion" in the "swank" Grunewald neighborhood.George F. Kennan, ''Memoirs, 1925–1950'' (Boston: Little, Brown, 1967), 113 One German who visited described it as "one vast hall after another, and he quiet alone in the midst of it. Very funny; a little like the theatre." His staff of servants spoke only Italian. He held "a large buffet luncheon every Sunday noon, as a means of revenging himself for such hospitality as his position required him to accept." While ambassador in Rome, Kirk lived in the
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, which he redecorated. He filled a large enclosure the size of a tennis court with "Renaissance tables and settees covered in ivory silk", according to ''Life'' magazine, to create what he termed "a sort of cozy sitting room".''Life''
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When ''Life'' profiled him in 1945, it reported that he had always established fine residences wherever he was posted: "The Ambassador is fond of houses, and especially big ones. Equipped with ample private funds and the courage of his complexes, Kirk sees no reason why he should not capitalize the chance his profession gives him to indulge this fondness, all the more since such indulgence usually works out to the benefit of the State Department in one way or another." His nickname around this time was "Buffy". In 1945 he attributed "his excellent health to the fact that he has never worn himself down by any form of exercise more violent than scratching, which he only does when suffering from insomnia at 6 a.m." He planned to retire to Arizona and bought a piece of land in the White Mountains at the end of World War II. He joked that he would live there not in a house but in a cave. Another diplomat reported that he retired to the mountains of Colorado and "amused himself operating a ranch and raising cattle" for a few years before relocating to Texas. His sister Gertrude Kirk Metzeroff died in St. Petersburg, Florida, in 1948 at the age of 84. According to her obituary, her brother Alexander was then living in Washington, D.C., and Santa Barbara, California, while her sister Margaret was living in Santa Barbara. Kirk died in
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, on March 23, 1979. He is buried with his mother in Rome's Protestant Cemetery (''Cimitero Acattolico''). In his 1967 memoirs,
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sketched an affectionate portrait of Kirk, as he knew him in Berlin before America entered World War II: "a
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, profoundly saddened by the recent death of an adored mother who, while she was alive, had preempted much of both his companionship and his emotional life, Kirk drowned the inner emptiness in the performance of his arduous official duties", sleeping in an office alcove while working 16 to 18 hours daily. He continued:Kennan, 113–5 Kirk claimed he escaped from diplomatic functions by whatever ruse the situation required. At one embassy in Rome he found it necessary to leave by a door he could only reach by going under a grand piano. "In a case of this sort, Kirk recommends slow motion, which, he says, often prevents witnesses from even noticing a maneuver which, if executed fast, might horrify them." He insisted his favorite color was gray. He never had fresh flowers, rather he collected artificial ones in his favorite color. His wardrobe and household were maintained by a servant named Mario, who joined the Kirk household in Mexico early in Kirk's career and continued through his stint as ambassador in Rome.


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