Stedman Graham (born March 6, 1951) is an American educator, author, businessman, and
public speaker
Public speaking, also called oratory or oration, has traditionally meant the act of speaking face to face to a live audience. Today it includes any form of speaking (formally and informally) to an audience, including pre-recorded speech delive ...
. He is the long-term partner of
Oprah Winfrey.
Early life and education
Graham was born on March 6, 1951, in the
Whitesboro section of
Middle Township, New Jersey
Middle Township is a township in Cape May County, in the U.S. state of New Jersey. It is part of the Ocean City metropolitan statistical area and of South Jersey. As of the 2020 U.S. census, the township's population was 20,380, an increas ...
, the son of Mary Jacobs Graham and Stedman Graham Sr. He is one of six children. He stands tall. He received a
bachelor's degree
A bachelor's degree (from Middle Latin ''baccalaureus'') or baccalaureate (from Modern Latin ''baccalaureatus'') is an undergraduate academic degree awarded by colleges and universities upon completion of a course of study lasting three to six ...
in social work from
Hardin-Simmons University in 1974 and a master's degree in education from
Ball State University in 1979. Graham played college
basketball
Basketball is a team sport in which two teams, most commonly of five players each, opposing one another on a rectangular court, compete with the primary objective of shooting a basketball (approximately in diameter) through the defender's h ...
at Hardin-Simmons.
Business career

Graham eventually moved to
High Point, North Carolina
High Point is a city in the Piedmont Triad region of the U.S. state of North Carolina. Most of the city is in Guilford County, with parts extending into Randolph, Davidson, and Forsyth counties. High Point is North Carolina's only city that ex ...
, to establish himself in public relations. At B & C Associates, Graham worked on behalf of Black causes and worked with many distinguished clients, including author
Maya Angelou
Maya Angelou ( ; born Marguerite Annie Johnson; April 4, 1928 – May 28, 2014) was an American memoirist, popular poet, and civil rights activist. She published seven autobiographies, three books of essays, several books of poetry, and ...
and South African activist
Winnie Mandela
Winnie Madikizela-Mandela (born Nomzamo Winifred Zanyiwe Madikizela; 26 September 1936 – 2 April 2018), also known as Winnie Mandela, was a South African anti-apartheid activist and politician, and the second wife of Nelson Mandela. She ser ...
.
He is also founder of
Chicago, Illinois
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's AAD (formerly, Athletes Against Drugs), a non-profit organization that provides services to youth and has awarded over $1.5 million in scholarships since its founding in 1985. It also arranged for sports figures to educate children about substance abuse.
He is a member of the Indiana Broadcasting Hall of Fame.
In 1988 Graham created S. Graham & Associates, a Chicago-based corporate and educational marketing and consulting firm.
Graham was an adjunct professor at
Full Sail University
Full Sail University is a Private university, private For-profit higher education in the United States, for-profit university in Winter Park, Florida. It was formerly a recording studio in Ohio named Full Sail Productions and Full Sail Center ...
.
Public speaking
Graham has delivered speeches at many public and private schools on the topics of identity and self-awareness.
Books
Graham is the author of several
self-help
Self-help or self-improvement is a self-guided improvement''APA Dictionary of Physicology'', 1st ed., Gary R. VandenBos, ed., Washington: American Psychological Association, 2007.—economically, intellectually, or emotionally—often with a subst ...
and business-related books, including:
*''The Ultimate Guide to Sport Event Management and Marketing'' (1995).
*''You Can Make It Happen: A Nine-Step Plan for Success'' (1997)
*''You Can Make It Happen Every Day'' (1998)
*''Teens Can Make It Happen: Nine Steps for Success'' (2000)
*''Teens Can Make It Happen Workbook'' (2001)
*''The Ultimate Guide to Sports Marketing'' (2001)
*''Build Your Own Life Brand!: A Powerful Strategy to Maximize Your Potential and Enhance Your Value for Ultimate Achievement'' (2002)
*''Move Without the Ball: Put Your Skills and Your Magic to Work for You'' (2004)
*''Who Are You?'' (2005)
*''Diversity: Leaders Not Labels: A New Plan for the 21st Century'' (2006)
*''Identity: Your Passport to Success'' (2012)
*''Identity Leadership: To Lead Others You Must First Lead Yourself'' (2019)
Other publications
Graham became a columnist for ''The Huffington Post'' in 2013. He contributed an article on personal identity to the College Board School Counseling Series in 2012.
Personal life
Graham was a tennis instructor at the Denver Country Club when he met
Robin Robinson
Robin Carolle Brantley (born August 4, 1957), known professionally as Robin Robinson, is a longtime Chicago television news anchor best known for her 27 years as main news anchor at Fox-owned WFLD-TV in Chicago. She can now be heard on the radio ...
. She was a weekend news anchor on KMGH-TV at the time. They were in a relationship from 1982 to 1986.
Graham has been the subject of much publicity since 1986, most notably through tabloid articles claiming to chronicle his ongoing relationship with Oprah Winfrey. Graham has been with Winfrey since 1986.
He was conferred an honorary degree by
Notre Dame de Namur University
Notre Dame de Namur University (NDNU) is a private Catholic university in Belmont, California. It is the third oldest college in California and the first college in the state authorized to grant the baccalaureate degree to women. In 2021, the ...
of Belmont, Calif., at the university's 167th Commencement ceremony on May 4, 2019.
References
External links
Stedman Graham's home pageStedman Graham's Charity AAD home page*
– Video clip, book listings, speaking topics.
Stedman Graham's ExecutiveBiz Executive Spotlight Interview– Executive Spotlight Interview
Stedman Graham on creating a personal brandSally Duros: An interview with Stedman Graham
Stedman Graham – Who Are You
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1951 births
Living people
African-American basketball players
African-American businesspeople
American self-help writers
People from Abilene, Texas
People from Middle Township, New Jersey
Ball State University alumni
University of Illinois Chicago faculty
University of Chicago faculty
Hardin–Simmons Cowboys basketball players
Weatherford College alumni
Middle Township High School alumni
American men's basketball players
20th-century American businesspeople
20th-century African-American academics
21st-century American businesspeople