Marian Partington (born 21 February 1948) is an English writer, and the sister of Lucy Partington, who was abducted by

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on 27 December 1973 and murdered by them in the final days of 1973 or the first days of 1974. In May 2012, she wrote about the impact of Lucy’s life, disappearance and death in her memoir, ''If You Sit Very Still''. The book builds on ''Salvaging the Sacred'', an essay written by Marian and published in ''

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'' Weekend in May 1996. The essay inspired a play, by

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and a feature film, directed by Juliet McKoen, both entitled ''Frozen''. In April 2012, prior to the publication of her memoir, Marian was interviewed in the ''

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'' magazine. In November 2012 the former

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, cited ''If You Sit Very Still'' by Marian Partington as one of his books of the year in the ''

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''. In 2004, Partington’s story was featured in ''The F Word'' exhibition;

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's exhibition which explores forgiveness in the face of atrocity. She works as a storyteller, in schools and prisons, for The Forgiveness Project, a charitable organisation which explores forgiveness, reconciliation and conflict resolution through real-life human experience. Partington has forgiven one of her sister's killers, Rosemary West, but she did not reply and got the

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where she is serving a life sentence to tell Partington she doesn't want her to write again. In contrast though, Partington exchanges Christmas cards with one of Fred West's daughters, and West's younger brother, Douglas, got in touch with Partington when she wrote to him, saying he hoped something good could come out of all this evil. Marian is a

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and a

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''If You Sit Very Still'', by Marian Partington

The Forgiveness Project

Vala Publishing Cooperative

Review of ''If You Sit Very Still'' in The Guardian, 04/05/2012

Marian Partington speaking on the BBC World Service 21/05/2012

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Article on BBC Gloucester News, 14/05/2012

Marian Partington speaking on BBC Radio 4's Midweek, 16/04/2013

Review of ''If You Sit Very Still'' in the Sunday Express, 03/06/2012

Review of ''If You Sit Very Still'' in the Oxford Times, 19/06/2012

Interview on BBC Radio Scotland, 01/07/2012

Marian Partington speaking on BBC Radio Ulster

Rowan Williams cites ''If You Sit Very Still'' by Marian Partington as one of his books of the year in the Times Literary Supplement
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