Lying-in is the term given to the European forms of
postpartum confinement, the traditional practice involving long
bed rest before and after
giving birth. The term and the practice it describes are old-fashioned or
archaic, but lying-in used to be considered an essential component of the
postpartum period, even if there were no medical complications during
childbirth
Childbirth, also known as labour, parturition and delivery, is the completion of pregnancy, where one or more Fetus, fetuses exits the Womb, internal environment of the mother via vaginal delivery or caesarean section and becomes a newborn to ...
.
Description
A 1932 publication refers to lying-in as ranging from two weeks to two months.
[Lying in by Jan Nusche](_blank)
quoting ''The Bride's Book — A Perpetual Guide for the Montreal Bride'', published in 1932 It also suggests not "getting up" (getting out of bed post-birth) for at least nine days and ideally for 20 days.
Care was provided either by her female relatives (mother or mother-in-law), or, for those who could afford it, by a temporary worker called the
monthly nurse. These weeks ended with the re-introduction of the mother to the community in the Christian ceremony of the
churching of women
In Christian tradition the churching of women, also known as thanksgiving for the birth or adoption of a child, is the ceremony wherein a blessing is given to mothers after recovery from childbirth. The ceremony includes thanksgiving for the woma ...
. When lying-in was a more common term, it was used in the names of several
maternity hospitals, for example the
General Lying-In Hospital in London. Until the 1970s, standard NHS postpartum care involved 10 days in hospital, with the newborns taken to the nursery overnight, ensuring the mothers were well rested by the time they returned home.
Special foods
{{See also, Groaning food
A
caudle was a hot drink, well documented in
British cuisine
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, particularly in Victorian times, as suitable for invalids and new mothers. So much was it associated with the visits of friends to see the new baby that "cake and caudle" or "taking caudle" became a
metonym
Metonymy () is a figure of speech in which a concept is referred to by the name of something associated with that thing or concept. For example, the word "wikt:suit, suit" may refer to a person from groups commonly wearing business attire, such ...
for postpartum social visits.
Social aspects
Women received congratulatory visits from friends and family during the period; among many traditional customs around the world, the ''
desco da parto'' was a special form of painted tray presented to the mother in
Renaissance
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Florence
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Florence ...
. The many scenes painted on these trays show female visitors bringing presents, received by the mother in bed, while other women tend to the baby. Equivalent gifts in contemporary culture include
baby showers and
push presents.
No fixed term of lying-in is recommended in Renaissance manuals on family life (unlike in some other cultures), but documentary records suggest that the mother was rarely present at the
baptism
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, which in Italian cities was usually held within a week of the birth at the local
parish church
A parish church (or parochial church) in Christianity is the Church (building), church which acts as the religious centre of a parish. In many parts of the world, especially in rural areas, the parish church may play a significant role in com ...
, normally a few minutes' walk from any house.
"Renaissance childbirth"
Victoria & Albert Museum
In art
In art, the immensely popular scene of the '' Birth of Jesus'' technically shows the Virgin Mary, who reclines on a couch in most medieval examples, lying-in, but in famously non-ideal conditions. More ideal images of lying-in in well-off households are represented in '' Birth of the Virgin'' and '' Birth of John the Baptist''. These are generally given contemporary settings, and differ little from other images that are purely secular, especially those on ''desci da parto''.
References
Childbirth
Traditions
Women's culture
Taboo