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Hedda Nussbaum (born August 8, 1942) is an American woman who was a caregiver of a six-year-old girl who died of
physical abuse Physical abuse is any intentional act causing injury or trauma to another person or animal by way of bodily contact. In most cases, children are the victims of physical abuse, but adults can also be victims, as in cases of domestic violence or ...
in 1987. The death of the girl, Lisa Steinberg, sparked a controversial trial and media frenzy. The legal case was one of the first to be televised "
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to gavel." Supporters characterized Nussbaum as a victim of horrific
domestic abuse Domestic violence is violence that occurs in a domestic setting, such as in a marriage or cohabitation. In a broader sense, abuse including nonphysical abuse in such settings is called domestic abuse. The term "domestic violence" is often use ...
at the hands of her live-in partner,
Joel Steinberg Joel Barnet Steinberg (born May 25, 1941) is a disbarred New York City criminal defense attorney who attracted international media attention when he was accused of rape and murder, and was convicted of manslaughter, in November 1, 1987, for the be ...
. Critics suggested she was a consensual partner in a
sadomasochistic Sadism () and masochism (), known collectively as sadomasochism ( ) or S&M, is the derivation of pleasure from acts of respectively inflicting or receiving pain or humiliation. The term is named after the Marquis de Sade, a French author known ...
relationship and an unprosecuted co-conspirator in the young girl's death.


Biography


Early life and career

Before meeting
Joel Steinberg Joel Barnet Steinberg (born May 25, 1941) is a disbarred New York City criminal defense attorney who attracted international media attention when he was accused of rape and murder, and was convicted of manslaughter, in November 1, 1987, for the be ...
in 1975, Hedda Nussbaum had been an editor and author of children's books at
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publishers, and before that at Appleton Century Crofts. Steinberg was a
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who sometimes handled
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cases. Beginning in 1976, Nussbaum and Steinberg lived together in a
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apartment in
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's
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. Her 1977 book, ''Plants Do Amazing Things'', was dedicated, in part, "to Joel, my everyday inspiration." Due to Nussbaum's occasionally obvious bruises and other injuries, friends and colleagues suspected that Nussbaum was the victim of
domestic violence Domestic violence is violence that occurs in a domestic setting, such as in a marriage Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a culturally and often legally recognised union between people called spouses. It establishes r ...
. Neighbors later stated to police they believed that Nussbaum and Steinberg were active participants in a "some kind of a sexual
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game." Friends occasionally offered to help Nussbaum, but she declined their offers of intervention or aid and refused to implicate Steinberg. After extended absences from work, Random House put Nussbaum on consulting editor status in 1982. In 1981, under dubious legal circumstances, Nussbaum and Steinberg took custody of an infant girl they named Lisa. The girl's birth mother had paid Steinberg a $500.00 legal fee to place the child with a
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family; both Nussbaum and Steinberg were
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. Under similar circumstances, Nussbaum and Steinberg later took in a toddler they named Mitchell. The couple never legally adopted either child. In her 2005 book ''Surviving Intimate Terrorism'', Nussbaum argued that her
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of the danger she and her children lived in was typical of some chronically maltreated persons (see
battered person syndrome Battered woman syndrome (BWS) is a pattern of signs and symptoms displayed by a woman who has suffered persistent intimate partner violence—psychological, physical, or sexual—from her partner (usually male). Although the diagnosis has mainly ...
). Nussbaum claimed that she fled from the home six times, only to later return. Nussbaum mentions the medical theory that trauma, especially prolonged trauma, can elicit the body's production of
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s that produce mental and physical numbness. Nussbaum also suggests that her "numbness" further reduced her ability to think and act clearly, akin to "
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", a mental state wherein victims identify with their abusers.


Lisa's death and the subsequent trial

According to initial police reports, on November 1, 1987, around 7:00 p.m., Steinberg rendered Lisa unconscious with a severe blow to the head. Nussbaum remained alone with the dying child for roughly ten hours, failing to notify police or medical personnel. Steinberg departed and returned several times, sometimes freebasing
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. According to initial police reports, Nussbaum didn't notify authorities because she believed Steinberg had
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healing powers.Skaine, p. 87 At roughly 6.00 a.m. the next morning, Lisa stopped breathing. Shortly thereafter, Steinberg telephoned
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at Nussbaum's urging. After Lisa's death, Mitchell was discovered in squalid conditions. The child's birth mother, Nicole Smiegel, had waived her parental rights. However, since a legal adoption had never occurred, Smiegel was ultimately granted custody of her son. When authorities learned of Lisa's death, they initially charged both Nussbaum and Steinberg with complicity. In the course of the investigation, however, charges were later dropped against Nussbaum. She agreed to testify against Steinberg, and medical examination revealed that Nussbaum was
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,
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, and suffering from broken bones and chronic infections. With these findings, authorities determined that Nussbaum was physically incapable of seriously wounding Lisa. Nussbaum's courtroom testimony against Steinberg earned substantial media attention, due in part to her face showing obvious evidence of physical trauma. There were also indications, as Nussbaum testified in court, that Lisa had been
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by people outside of her immediate family. During the trial, medical experts testified that while Lisa's injuries were severe, she would have almost certainly survived if given prompt medical treatment. Steinberg was convicted on charges of first-degree
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. After serving sixteen years at the Southport Correctional Facility, where he was held in
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, Steinberg was released on
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in 2004 and got a job in construction.


Later life

In the years following Lisa's death, Nussbaum worked to rebuild her life and had numerous reconstructive plastic surgeries. She also co-facilitated a
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for battered women for about eight years and later worked as a
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for an organization that assists battered women. In 1995, Nussbaum began giving lectures about abuse at colleges and shelters. When Steinberg was released from prison, however, she receded from public attention until the publication of her book a year and a half later.


Analyses

The Nussbaum case polarized
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scholars and activists. Some saw Nussbaum as an
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victim of domestic violence whose actions were controlled and restricted not only by her abusive partner, but also by the culture at large that denies the seriousness of abuse in the home. Other leading feminists—notably
Susan Brownmiller Susan Brownmiller (born Susan Warhaftig; February 15, 1935 – May 24, 2025) was an American journalist, author, and feminist activist, best known for her 1975 book '' Against Our Will: Men, Women, and Rape'', which was selected by The New ...
—suggested that while Nussbaum suffered violence from her partner, she should also have shared full culpability for Lisa's death. Brownmiller was inspired to write a fictionalized account of the events in a novel titled ''Waverly Place.''


Bibliography

Books by Nussbaum include: *''Plants Do Amazing Things'' (1976) *''Animals Build Amazing Homes'' (1979) *''Surviving Intimate Terrorism'' (September 12, 2005) -


References


External links


Hedda Nussbaum papers
at the
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, Smith College Special Collections {{DEFAULTSORT:Nussbaum, Hedda 1942 births Living people Child abuse in the United States Random House American editors American children's writers Writers from New York City Place of birth missing (living people) American women children's writers 21st-century American women