
Gaymer and gay gamer are
umbrella terms used to refer to the group of people who are identified as
homosexual
Homosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior between members of the same sex or gender. As a sexual orientation, homosexuality is "an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions" to peop ...
and have an active interest in
video games or
tabletop games, also known as
gamer
A gamer is a proactive hobbyist who plays interactive games, especially video games, tabletop role-playing games, and skill-based card games, and who plays for usually long periods of time. Some gamers are competitive, meaning they routinely ...
s.
Lesbian
A lesbian is a Homosexuality, homosexual woman.Zimmerman, p. 453. The word is also used for women in relation to their sexual identity or sexual behavior, regardless of sexual orientation, or as an adjective to characterize or associate n ...
,
bisexual
Bisexuality is a romantic or sexual attraction or behavior toward both males and females, or to more than one gender. It may also be defined to include romantic or sexual attraction to people regardless of their sex or gender identity, whi ...
, and
transgender gamers are often categorized under this term.
This demographic has been the subject of two large surveys that attracted press coverage: by Jason Rockwood in 2006,
who noted the level of prejudice that gaymers endure,
and by Paul Nowak in 2009 focusing on what gaymers expect of video games.
A
gaming convention
A gaming convention is a gathering centered on role-playing games, collectible card games, miniatures wargames, board games, video games, or other types of games. These conventions are typically two or three days long, and often held at either a u ...
oriented to
LGBT gaming and geek culture,
GaymerX, first took place on August 3 and 4, 2013, in San Francisco.
Chris Vizzini, owner of the gaming site ''Gaymer.org'', was involved with several online communities (in special with
Reddit) between 2007 and 2013 in a controversy and
legal dispute over the trademark of the term ''gaymer'', which ended when Vizzini surrendered the right to the term and the trademark was cancelled. In recent years, more and more proper representation of gaymer culture can be seen and predominantly featured in video game studios worldwide.
Surveys
2006 University of Illinois
In 2006, a sociological study at
University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign looked at the gay gamer subgroup focusing on the profile of a "gaymer", and concerns they have regarding the perception of them in the gaming community and visibility of gay characters in games.
The study's author noted the level of prejudice that gaymers endure: "Gay gamers experience a double edged sword of prejudice... The mainstream gay culture and media is not supportive of video games. Then you have the video game culture that is not supportive of gay culture. So you have these people stuck in the middle who have this double edged prejudice."
With about 10,000 respondents the survey exhibited a reverse
bell curve of gamer sexuality, with most people identifying as either completely heterosexual or homosexual. Only a "very small minority" of the respondents to the first survey supported the use of the term ''gaymer''.
2009 Full Sail University
In late August 2009,
Full Sail University student Paul S. Nowak began a second survey of gaymer play preferences.
The survey focused on "questions of content such as plot, genre, customization and other in-game experiences."
The survey team reported that over 7000 people participated in the survey.
The results of Nowak's survey were used by Nowak to "build a profile of the gay gamer community and gain unique insight into this financially untapped demographic". These results were not published in an academic journal, though a later Nowak's book lists gaymers as preferring
role-playing video game
A role-playing video game (commonly referred to as simply a role-playing game or RPG, as well as a computer role-playing game or CRPG) is a video game genre where the player controls the actions of a character (or several party members) immers ...
s, pertaining to the
hardcore ''
explorer/
achiever
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'' gamer type, and appreciating good plot and good quality ''homosexual content'', which he defines as game content "which reflects homosexual orientation in a positive or equal-to-heterosexual-orientation context".
Social and cultural aspects
Marketing to LGBT consumers
The misconception that young, white, heterosexual males were the force driving the industry forward was strongly challenged by the record-breaking success of ''
The Sims''. Video game developer
Maxis had resisted
Will Wright's goal of creating the title on the grounds that "girls don't play video games." The title was seen as unappealing to young heterosexual males.
["Will Wright, Game Master"](_blank)
, by John Seabrook In the 1990s, the industry began to make some effort to market games to women by creating software titles with strong, independent female characters.
Even some games that are considered to appeal mainly to the non-traditional
demographic
Demography () is the statistical study of populations, especially human beings.
Demographic analysis examines and measures the dimensions and dynamics of populations; it can cover whole societies or groups defined by criteria such as edu ...
continue to censor homosexuality. But some video game companies are now moving to further expand their marketing base to include the perceived market of affluent gaymers by including LGBT characters and supporting
LGBT rights. Critics of the suppression of gay identity often conclude that, as homosexuality is normalized in broader culture, it will be in video games as well.
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by Lydia Sung["How Not To Address Homosexuality In Gaming"](_blank)
, by Mike Fahey
Working inside the industry
Dani Bunten
Danielle Bunten Berry (February 19, 1949 – July 3, 1998), formerly known as Dan Bunten, was an American game designer and programmer, known for the 1983 game ''M.U.L.E.'', one of the first influential multiplayer video games, and 1984's '' ...
, a
transgender woman, designed some of the earliest
multiplayer games. In 1996,
Jacque Servin, a Maxis employee, was fired when he put implied gay characters into the ''
SimCopter'' game. Some reports state Servin claimed to have done it because he was upset at being grossly overworked at Maxis, while others cited it as a political statement.
Well-known gay writer and movie director
Clive Barker was involved in the creation of the games
''Undying'' and
''Jericho''.
Online Communities
The umbrella term quickly expanded throughout the internet which gave rise to popular online communities which provide a safe space for LGBT gamers and the LGBT gaming culture. Most notable of those on
Reddit ''r/gaymers'', ''r/gayming'' and VoIP gaming app
Discord, ''Gaymers, London Gaymers, Aussie Gaymer Network'' and ''UK Gaymers''.
Media coverage
''World of Warcraft'' LGBTQ guilds
One reason many cite for the lack of visible participation by gaymers is the unwelcoming regulations of in-game interactions such as the creation of and advertisement of queer-friendly guilds in
MMORPG
A massively multiplayer online role-playing game (MMORPG) is a video game that combines aspects of a role-playing video game and a massively multiplayer online game.
As in role-playing games (RPGs), the player assumes the role of a Player charac ...
s such as ''
World of Warcraft''. Players who attempt to use the general chat channel for recruitment can experience a backlash of harassment and verbal abuse from other players as well as the game moderators.
In cases like this, game companies and administrators may alienate game players through intensive policing.
In 2006, Sara Andrews started a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer-friendly Warcraft guild to create a safe place for this community. In January 2006, Andrews used the general chat channel, because most guilds recruit members this way, to recruit players to her LGBTQ-friendly guild ‘‘Oz’’.
After posting this, goal administrators quickly contacted Andrews informing her that this was a breach of the games terms of service. The Blizzard terms of service asserts that ‘‘sexual orientation,’’ including both clear and masked language, which ‘‘insultingly refers to any aspect of sexual orientation pertaining to themselves or other players’’ is banned. Andrews ‘‘was warned by a Blizzard game master that this violated the company’s policy on harassment,’’ and ‘‘Blizzard went so far as to threaten Andrews with banishment from the game if she continued’’. Blizzard later apologized for this warning, saying that an administrator misinterpreted the policies against harassment.
''The Escapist'' issue ''Queer Eye for the Gamer Guy''
Video game magazine
''The Escapist'' devoted Issue 222 to gay gamers and characters with the title "Queer Eye for the Gamer Guy" (similar to the
TV show title).
Same-sex marriage in ''The Lord of the Rings Online''
The
MMORPG
A massively multiplayer online role-playing game (MMORPG) is a video game that combines aspects of a role-playing video game and a massively multiplayer online game.
As in role-playing games (RPGs), the player assumes the role of a Player charac ...
game ''
The Lord of the Rings Online
''The Lord of the Rings Online'' is a massively multiplayer online role-playing game (MMORPG) for Microsoft Windows and OS X set in J. R. R. Tolkien's Middle-earth, taking place during the time period of '' The Lord of the Rings''. Originally ...
'' dropped a planned
online marriage feature because of the controversy around restrictions on same-sex and inter-species marriage. The online magazine for gaymers ''GayGamer.net'' commented that, while
J. R. R. Tolkien was a devout
Christian
Christians () are people who follow or adhere to Christianity, a monotheistic Abrahamic religion based on the life and teachings of Jesus Christ. The words ''Christ'' and ''Christian'' derive from the Koine Greek title ''Christós'' (Χρι ...
, his stance on gay rights is not known as the topic was not a public issue at the time.
GaymerX convention
On July 31, 2012, a
Kickstarter
Kickstarter is an American public benefit corporation based in Brooklyn, New York, that maintains a global crowdfunding platform focused on creativity. The company's stated mission is to "help bring creative projects to life". As of July 2021, ...
project was started for GaymerCon, which was later renamed to GaymerX, for a convention that billed itself as being "the first gaming convention focused on LGBTQ geek culture." Within five days, the Kickstarter project passed the funding goal of $25,000
USD, and after the full funding period of 30 days, the project reached the final total of $91,389.
GaymerX took place on August 3 and 4, 2013, in
San Francisco. The event has received support from
Electronic Arts and
GLAAD
GLAAD (), an acronym of Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, is an American non-governmental media monitoring organization originally founded as a protest against defamatory coverage of gay and lesbian demographics and their portrayals ...
.
Trademark controversy
In April 2007 Chris Vizzini, owner of the gaming site ''Gaymer.org'', sought to trademark the term ''gaymer'' with respect to online communities
and obtained it in March 2008.
In 2012, he sent a
cease and desist
A cease and desist letter is a document sent to an individual or business to stop alleged illegal activity. The phrase "cease and desist" is a legal doublet, made up of two near-synonyms. The letter may warn that, if the recipient does not dis ...
letter to
Reddit's /r/gaymers ''subreddit'' forum, for alleged trademark infringement.
Vizzini has been criticized by the reddit and gaymer communities, who cite examples of use from as early as 1991, and a
Yahoo Groups online community with that name created in 2000. Vizzini's website was taken out of service in September, 2012; he has claimed that this was due to a
denial of service attack. On two occasions Vizzini posted new threads to the /r/gaymers forum explaining his position
[ reddit.com][ reddit.com] and apologizing for "hurting his own people", but not for filing the trademark.
On January 24, 2013, members of /r/gaymers, supported by
pro bono
( en, 'for the public good'), usually shortened to , is a Latin phrase for professional work undertaken voluntarily and without payment. In the United States, the term typically refers to provision of legal services by legal professionals for pe ...
lawyers from
Perkins Coie and
Electronic Frontier Foundation
The Electronic Frontier Foundation (EFF) is an international non-profit digital rights group based in San Francisco, California. The foundation was formed on 10 July 1990 by John Gilmore, John Perry Barlow and Mitch Kapor to promote Internet ci ...
, filed a petition at the
US Patent and Trademark Office to cancel Vizzini's trademark on the term, on the basis that it was used with that meaning since the mid-1990s. Vizzini reinstated his intent to defend the trademark on the site's name, that he started as an online community on 2003 as a way to build a positive brand from a term that had negative connotations.
On June 25, 2013, it was announced that Gaymer.org was being officially closed down. On August 22, 2013, the US Patent and Trademark office officially canceled the trademark after Vizzini decided to surrender the mark.
Nintendo's ''Tomodachi Life'' controversy
In 2014
Nintendo
is a Japanese Multinational corporation, multinational video game company headquartered in Kyoto, Japan. It develops video games and video game consoles.
Nintendo was founded in 1889 as by craftsman Fusajiro Yamauchi and originally produce ...
, and their life simulator videogame, ''
Tomodachi Life
''Tomodachi Life'' is a social simulation video game developed by Nintendo SPD and published by Nintendo for the Nintendo 3DS. The game follows the day-to-day interactions of Mii characters (referred to as "islanders") as they build friendships, ...
'', which allows for the creation of avatars called Miis to interact with one another came under fire for only allowing opposite sex Miis to flirt with one another or become married leading to disappointment amongst LGBTQIA+ fans of the company. Nintendo responded by stating that "Nintendo never intended to make any form of social commentary with the launch of 'Tomodachi Life,'" Nintendo of America Inc. said in a statement. "The relationship options in the game represent a playful alternate world rather than a real-life simulation. We hope that all of our fans will see that 'Tomodachi Life' was intended to be a whimsical and quirky game, and that we were absolutely not trying to provide social commentary." Nintendo later apologized for the incident and disappointing their fans stating "We apologize for disappointing many people by failing to include same-sex relationships in Tomodachi Life," Nintendo said in a statement released Friday. "Unfortunately, it is not possible for us to change this game's design, and such a significant development change can't be accomplished with a post-ship patch."
See also
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LGBT characters in video games
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LGBT culture
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LGBT themes in video games
Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) characters have been depicted in video games since the 1980s. In the history of video games, LGBT characters have been almost nonexistent for a long time, reflecting the overall heteronormativity ...
References
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