Gavin de Becker (born October 26, 1954)
[Reagan, Ronald (January 19, 1989)]
Designation of Gavin de Becker as a Member of the Board of Governors of the United Service Organizations, Incorporated.
via Reagan archive is an American security specialist and author. He has worked for governments, large corporations, and public figures.
Reportedly a billionaire, he runs
Gavin de Becker and Associates, which he founded in 1978. The firm protects and advises many of the world's most prominent public figures. He is the author of several books, most notably ''
The Gift of Fear'' (1997).
Early life
Gavin de Becker is the son of
Hal de Becker (1931–2021), an American dancer and prolific writer about dance.
De Becker describes his childhood as mired in violence. His parents divorced when he was three. His mother was a heroin addict who physically abused him and his sister and once shot his stepfather while de Becker was present in the home. She committed suicide when he was sixteen, and de Becker subsequently moved in with a friend from school,
Miguel Ferrer, the son of actors
José Ferrer
José Vicente Ferrer de Otero y Cintrón (January 8, 1912 – January 26, 1992) was a Puerto Ricans, Puerto Rican actor and director of stage, film and television. He was one of the most celebrated and esteemed Hispanic and Latino Americans, Hi ...
and
Rosemary Clooney. He lived with the family for two years and would go on to work with Clooney as her road manager. He then worked as
Elizabeth Taylor
Dame Elizabeth Rosemond Taylor (February 27, 1932 – March 23, 2011) was an English and American actress. She began her career as a child actress in the early 1940s and was one of the most popular stars of classical Hollywood cinema in the 19 ...
's assistant.
Career
In the 1980s, together with the
United States Marshals Service
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, de Becker co-designed the
MOSAIC Threat Assessment Systems,
[Forrest, Brett (June 2000)]
UltraViolencePredictor 1.0.
''Wired
Wired may refer to:
Arts, entertainment, and media Music
* ''Wired'' (Jeff Beck album), 1976
* ''Wired'' (Hugh Cornwell album), 1993
* ''Wired'' (Mallory Knox album), 2017
* "Wired", a song by Prism from their album '' Beat Street''
* "Wired ...
'' which is used to screen threats to justices of the
Supreme Court of the United States
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, members of
United States Congress
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, and senior officials of the
Central Intelligence Agency
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. Los Angeles County Law enforcement agencies adopted MOSAIC in 1997 to help police manage and reduce spousal abuse cases that might escalate to homicide.
In 1983, he investigated a stalker for
Olivia Newton-John
Dame Olivia Newton-John (26 September 1948 – 8 August 2022) was a British and Australian singer and actress. With over 100 million records sold, Newton-John was one of the List of best-selling music artists#100 million to 119 million record ...
,
Sheena Easton
Sheena Shirley Easton (; born 27 April 1959) is a Scottish singer and actress who achieved recognition in an episode of the reality television series ''The Big Time (TV series), The Big Time: Pop Singer'', which recorded her attempts to gain a ...
, and
Cher
Cher ( ; born Cheryl Sarkisian, May 20, 1946) is an American singer, actress and television personality. Dubbed the "Honorific nicknames in popular music, Goddess of Pop", she is known for her Androgyny, androgynous contralto voice, Music an ...
. He also provided his services to celebrities like
Richard Burton
Richard Burton (; born Richard Walter Jenkins Jr.; 10 November 1925 – 5 August 1984) was a Welsh actor.
Noted for his mellifluous baritone voice, Burton established himself as a formidable Shakespearean actor in the 1950s and gave a memor ...
,
Dolly Parton
Dolly Rebecca Parton (born January 19, 1946) is an American singer, songwriter, musician, actress, and philanthropist, known primarily as a country music, country musician. After achieving success as a songwriter for others, Parton's debut album ...
,
Jane Fonda
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,
Joan Rivers
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,
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, and
John Travolta
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.
He was twice appointed to the President's Advisory Board at the
United States Department of Justice
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, in 1982 and 1989.
He has also served as an advisor for the anti-bullying resource
Bystander Revolution, senior advisor to the Rand Corporation, and senior fellow at UCLA's School of Public Policy.
[Rand Annual Report (2005]
Rand.org – Page 36
His first book, ''
The Gift of Fear'', published in 1997, was a US number 1 bestseller on
The New York Times Bestseller List, ''The New York Times'' Bestseller List.
In 1997, his firm was hired by
Bill Cosby
William Henry Cosby Jr. ( ; born July 12, 1937) is an American retired comedian, actor, and media personality. Often cited as a trailblazer for African Americans in the entertainment industry, Cosby was a film, television, and stand-up comedy ...
to investigate the murder of his son,
Ennis
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, and the threatening letters his family received after the slaying.
In 1999–2000, he assisted the
United States Secret Service
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in the development of its guide for Protective Intelligence and
Threat Assessment Investigations.
[US Department of Justice (January 2000]
ojp.gov – Page vii
His 2008 book, ''Just 2 Seconds'', has been described as a guide for protectors of at-risk people, focusing on five key lessons for those responsible for protecting others. It also includes summaries of incidents from the last several decades for training and analysis. Co-authors of the book are Tom Taylor and Jeff Marquart.
[Kirdahy, Matthew (September 16, 2008]
Forbes.com
In March 2019, de Becker, who has worked for
Jeff Bezos
Jeffrey Preston Bezos ( ;; and Robinson (2010), p. 7. ; born January 12, 1964) is an American businessman best known as the founder, executive chairman, and former president and CEO of Amazon, the world's largest e-commerce and clou ...
, accused the Saudi Arabian government of
hacking Bezos' phone after the ''
National Enquirer
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'' published a story about Bezos's extramarital affair. According to the BBC, de Becker, as Bezos' top security staffer, "linked the hack to ''The Washington Post'' coverage of the murder of Saudi writer
Jamal Khashoggi
Jamal Ahmad Hamza Khashoggi (13 October 1958 – 2 October 2018) was a Saudi journalist, Saudi dissidents, dissident, author, columnist for ''Middle East Eye'' and ''The Washington Post'', and a general manager and editor-in-chief of Al-Arab New ...
at the Saudi consulate in Istanbul." ''
The Daily Beast
''The Daily Beast'' is an American news website focused on politics, media, and pop culture. Founded in 2008, the website is owned by IAC Inc.
It has been characterized as a "high-end tabloid" by Noah Shachtman, the site's editor-in-chief ...
'' ran an op-ed, in which de Becker explained the matter of the Saudi hack in detail. Journalist
Brad Stone explored whether the Saudi hack was linked in any way to a ''National Enquirer'' article about Bezos having an affair. United Nations Special Rapporteur
Agnes Callamard conducted an investigation of the Saudi hack. In a public statement, she referred to information that suggested a WhatsApp account belonging to Crown Prince
Mohammed bin Salman
Mohammed bin Salman Al Saud (; born 31 August 1985), also known as MBS or MbS, is the ''de facto'' ruler of the Saudi Arabia, Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, formally serving as Crown Prince of Saudi Arabia, Crown Prince and Prime Minister of Sa ...
was used to deploy digital spyware on Bezos' phone "in an effort to influence, if not silence" ''The Washington Posts reporting on the kingdom. A United Nations report noted that "the iPhone infiltration occurred from May to June in 2018, when the phones of Jamal Khashoggi's associates, Yahya Assiri and Omar Abdulaziz, were also hacked, allegedly using malware called
Pegasus." The UN experts stated: "During the same period, Mr. Bezos was widely targeted in Saudi social media as an alleged adversary of the Kingdom. This was part of a massive, clandestine online campaign against Mr. Bezos and Amazon, apparently targeting him principally as the owner of ''The Washington Post''."
Political donations
De Becker has donated to both
Democrats and
Republicans in the past. In 2019, he supplied New York Governor
Andrew Cuomo's re-election campaign with $5,000.
In 2022, he contributed $5,000 to Wisconsin Republican Senator
Ron Johnson's re-election campaign. Also in 2022, he gave
Duke Aiona a total of $6,000 for his bid to become Governor of Hawaii.
In 2023, he donated $4.5 million to the
Super-PAC that supports
Robert F. Kennedy Jr.'s 2024 presidential campaign.
In 2024, de Becker donated $10 million to the
Super-PAC that supports
Robert F. Kennedy Jr.'s 2024 presidential campaign, then had $9.65 million returned to him. De Becker and the American Values Political Action Committee both confirm that this was "bridge funding", meaning it could be returned if it was not needed or used.
Expert witness testimony
De Becker has provided expert witness testimony in many cases, including the successful prosecution of Arthur Richard Jackson, the assailant of actress
Theresa Saldana. He later led a national campaign to keep Jackson incarcerated. He also testified in the civil case against the employer of murderer Rodney Garmanian.
De Becker testified in the successful 1994 civil case ''Khawar v. Globe International, Inc.'', in which
Francis Pizzulli represented the plaintiff. The case arose when the tabloid ''
Globe
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'' accused an uninvolved man of being the actual assassin of Senator Robert Kennedy. ''Globe'' attempted to have de Becker's testimony dismissed by a higher court, but the decision was ultimately upheld by the California Court of Appeals.
[California Court of Appeals (June 5, 1996)]
Khawar v. Globe International Inc.
De Becker advised the
Los Angeles County District Attorney
The District Attorney of Los Angeles County is in charge of the office that prosecutor, prosecutes felony and misdemeanor crimes that occur within Los Angeles County, California, United States. The current district attorney (DA) is Nathan Hochma ...
in the prosecution of Robert Bardo, the murderer of actress Rebecca Schaeffer, and was a consultant on the
prosecution of O.J. Simpson for the murder of his ex-wife, Nicole Brown Simpson, and Ron Goldman, and the successful civil action against Simpson. His role in the O.J. Simpson cases is described in several books on the case, including those written by Marcia Clark, Christopher Darden,
Jeffrey Toobin, and Daniel Petrocelli.
Cultural references
* Actor
Miguel Ferrer, who played FBI agent Albert Rosenfield in the 1990s television show ''
Twin Peaks
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'', reported that his character was based on Gavin de Becker. Ferrer reportedly knew de Becker since high school.
* Actor
Robert De Niro
Robert Anthony De Niro ( , ; born August 17, 1943) is an American actor, director, and film producer. He is considered to be one of the greatest and most influential actors of his generation. De Niro is the recipient of List of awards and ...
met extensively with de Becker in preparation for his role in ''
The Fan'' (1996).
* In
Patricia Cornwell
Patricia Cornwell (born Patricia Carroll Daniels; June 9, 1956) is an American crime writer. She is known for her best-selling novels featuring medical examiner Kay Scarpetta, of which the first was inspired by a series of sensational murders ...
's 2004 novel ''
Trace'', character Lucy Fairinelli describes using "the Gavin de Becker style of simulated combat" for training security staff.
* In season 2, episode 10 of ''
Entourage'' (2005), character
Vincent Chase states, "I should have Gavin de Becker come sweep the house for bugs".
* In 2006, after Hollywood agent
Ari Emanuel
Ariel Zev Parmar Emanuel (born March 29, 1961) is an American businessman and the CEO of Endeavor, an entertainment and media agency, as well as CEO and executive chairman of TKO Group Holdings, which owns the UFC and WWE. He was a founding ...
called on the entertainment industry to blacklist actor
Mel Gibson
Mel Columcille Gerard Gibson (born January 3, 1956) is an American actor and filmmaker. The recipient of List of awards and nominations received by Mel Gibson, multiple accolades, he is known for directing historical films as well for his act ...
for things he said when arrested for drunk driving, de Becker responded through an essay published in a full-page ad in the ''
Hollywood Reporter''. He defended Gibson, saying that "alcoholism cannot be used to prove anti-Semitism". In the essay, de Becker asked Emanuel: "A drunken spouse spits out the words 'I never loved you anyway!' Is that truth? A drunken idiot boasts that he can 'take on the whole goddamn bunch of you, you bastards, come on, 'I'll kick your asses'. Is that truth?"
* Actress
Meryl Streep, who describes de Becker as a friend, said ''The Gift of Fear'' informed her portrayal of a nun in the 2008 movie
Doubt
Doubt is a mental state in which the mind remains suspended between two or more contradictory propositions, and is certainty, uncertain about them.
Doubt on an emotional level is indecision between belief and wikt:disbelief, disbelief. It may i ...
.
* In season 2, episode 12 of ''
Breaking Bad
''Breaking Bad'' is an American crime drama television series created and produced by Vince Gilligan for AMC (TV channel), AMC. Set and filmed in Albuquerque, New Mexico, the series follows Walter White (Breaking Bad), Walter White (Bryan Cran ...
'' (2009),
Walter White's book on his nightstand is ''The Gift of Fear''.
* De Becker gave the eulogy for
Garry Shandling; referring to a long-term feud with studio head
Brad Grey
Brad Alan Grey (December 29, 1957 – May 14, 2017) was an American television and film producer. He co-founded Brillstein-Grey Entertainment (now Brillstein Entertainment Partners), and afterwards became the chairman and CEO of Paramount Pictur ...
, de Becker said, "Over the years, many people asked me, 'Why doesn't Garry have a family?' My answer was, 'Of course he had a family.' He created the Sanders family, which was as much a family as anything, and he had this family
otioning to the crowd And even Brad Grey had a role in his family, because every family has an uncle or a cousin who is a sociopath."
* De Becker gave a eulogy at
Carrie Fisher
Carrie Frances Fisher (October 21, 1956 – December 27, 2016) was an American actress and writer. She played Princess Leia in the Star Wars original trilogy, original ''Star Wars'' films (1977–1983) and reprised the role in'' Star Wars: The F ...
's memorial service. Fisher and de Becker reportedly attended high school together and are described as friends. "The first time I had sex was at Carrie's house", de Becker stated in the eulogy, and added, "It wasn't with Carrie, but she arranged it".
* De Becker and novelist
Bruce Wagner officiated at the wedding of Carrie Fisher's daughter, actress
Billie Lourd. Lourd said, "It was the most hysterically brilliant and touching officiating in the history of officiating".
* Writer and director
Zach Cregger says his 2022 film, ''
Barbarian
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A "barbarian" may ...
'', was inspired by ''The Gift of Fear''.
Philanthropy
De Becker founded and funded Patient Pets, providing pet therapy for violently inclined patients at
Atascadero State Hospital in California.
De Becker is the creator and primary funder of the Naqaqa Giving Foundation, which supports disadvantaged people in
Fiji
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and in southern Africa.
Personal life
In the 1990s, de Becker was romantically linked to singer
Alanis Morissette
Alanis Nadine Morissette ( ; born June 1, 1974) is a Canadian and American singer, songwriter, musician, and actress. Known for her emotive mezzo-soprano voice and confessional songwriting, she became a cultural phenomenon during the mid 199 ...
and actress
Geena Davis.
De Becker and his wife have been married since 2007 and have two sons. He has also raised eight adopted children, now adults.
De Becker was friends with former Beatle
George Harrison
George Harrison (25 February 1943 – 29 November 2001) was an English musician, singer and songwriter who achieved international fame as the lead guitarist of the Beatles. Sometimes called "the quiet Beatle", Harrison embraced Culture ...
, who reportedly died at de Becker's home. De Becker is also friends with
Brooke Shields
Brooke Christa Shields (born May 31, 1965) is an American actress. A child model starting at the age of 11 months, Shields gained widespread notoriety at age 12 for her leading role in Louis Malle's film ''Pretty Baby (1978 film), Pretty Baby ...
. Interviewed in the documentary ''
Pretty Baby: Brooke Shields'', he told of her confiding in him after she was raped by an acquaintance.
Writing
Books
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Forewords
* ''To Have or to Harm: True Stories of Stalkers and Their Victims''. 1994. Grand Central Pub.
* ''Surviving a Stalker: Everything You Need to Know to Keep Yourself Safe''. 2000. Balance.
* ''Beauty Bites Beast: Awakening the Warrior Within Women and Girls''. 2001. B3 Books.
* ''A Girl's Gotta Do What a Girl's Gotta Do''. 2003. Rodale Books.
* ''On Combat: The Psychology and Physiology of Deadly Conflict in War and Peace''. 2004. Human Factor Research Group Inc.
* ''Embracing Fear: How to Turn What Scares Us into Our Greatest Gift''. 2005. Harper One.
* ''The End of War: How Waging Peace Can Save Humanity, Our Planet, and Our Future''. 2010. Easton Studio Press.
* ''The Kidpower Book for Caring Adults: Personal Safety, Self-Protection, Confidence, and Advocacy for Young People''. 2012.
* ''The Safety Godmothers: The ABCs of Awareness, Boundaries and Confidence for Teens''. 2014. B3 Books.
* ''Self-Defense for Women: Fight Back''. 2016. YMAA Pruductions Center.
* ''SUICIDE, COVID-19, and KETAMINE: How a Little Known Drug May Save Lives''. 2021. Tailwind Productions.
* ''The Revolutionary Ketamine: The Safe Drug That Effectively Treats Depression and Prevents Suicide''. 2023. Skyhorse.
* ''The Brass Check: The Seminal Exposé on News Media Censorship and Propaganda''. 2026. Clydesdale.
References
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1954 births
Living people
American non-fiction crime writers
20th-century American businesspeople