
A cat lady is a cultural
archetype
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or
stock character
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, most often depicted as a woman, a middle-aged or elderly
spinster
''Spinster'' is a term referring to an unmarried woman who is older than what is perceived as the prime age range during which women usually marry. It can also indicate that a woman is considered unlikely to ever marry. The term originally den ...
or
widow
A widow (female) or widower (male) is a person whose spouse has died.
Terminology
The state of having lost one's spouse to death is termed ''widowhood''. An archaic term for a widow is "relict," literally "someone left over". This word can ...
, who has many
cat
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s. The term may be
pejorative
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, or it may be affectionately embraced.
Usage and association
Women who have cats have long been associated with the concept of
spinster
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hood. In more recent decades, the concept of a cat lady has been associated with "romance-challenged (often career-oriented) women".
Specifically, it has also been embraced by lesbians.
A cat lady may also be an
animal hoarder who keeps large numbers of cats without having the ability to properly house or care for them. They may be ignorant about their situation, or generally unaware of their situation. People who are aware of it are not normally considered cat ladies.
Depending on context, the ordinarily pejorative word "crazy" may be prepended to "cat lady" to indicate either a
pejorative
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or a humorous and affectionate label.
Some writers, celebrities, and artists have challenged the gender-based "Crazy Cat Lady" stereotype, and embraced the term to mean an animal lover or rescuer who cares for one or multiple cats, and who is psychologically healthy.
A 2019 study found no differences between cat owners and non-cat owners for anxiety, depression or experiences in relationships: "We suggest that our findings are, therefore, not consistent with a description of cat-owners as depressed, anxious or as having difficulty with human relationships." However, a separate 1983 study found that pet owners tended to score higher than non-owners on social sensitivity and interpersonal trust, though there was no appreciative difference between dog and cat owners.
Documentary
The documentary ''Cat Ladies'' (2009) tells the stories of four women whose lives became dedicated to their cats. The film was directed by Christie Callan-Jones and produced by Chocolate Box Entertainment, originally for
TVOntario
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. It was an official selection at the 2009 Hot Docs Festival, Silverdocs Festival, and San Francisco's DocFest.
Naftali Berrill, Ph.D., Director of the New York Center for Neuropsychology and Forensic Behavioral Science, told
AOL
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Health, "These may be people who have a very hard time expressing themselves to other people. They may find the human need for affection is met most easily through a relationship with a pet." This devotion can sometimes signal mental or emotional issues such as depression.
''Toxoplasma gondii''
Some studies indicate a link between the parasite ''
Toxoplasma gondii
''Toxoplasma gondii'' () is an obligate intracellular parasitic protozoan (specifically an apicomplexan) that causes toxoplasmosis. Found worldwide, ''T. gondii'' is capable of infecting virtually all warm-blooded animals, but felids, such as d ...
'', which sexually reproduces exclusively in cats, and numerous psychiatric conditions, including
obsessive compulsive disorder
Obsession may refer to:
Psychology
* Celebrity worship syndrome, obsessive addictive disorder to a celebrity's personal and professional life
* Fixation (psychology), a persistent attachment to an object or idea
* Idée fixe (psychology), a pr ...
(OCD) and
schizophrenia
Schizophrenia is a mental disorder characterized by continuous or relapsing episodes of psychosis. Major symptoms include hallucinations (typically hearing voices), delusions, and disorganized thinking. Other symptoms include social withd ...
,
whereas other studies have showed that ''T. gondii'' is not a causative factor in later psychoses.
The
compulsive hoarding
Compulsive behavior is defined as performing an action persistently and repetitively. Compulsive behaviors could be an attempt to make obsessions go away. The act is usually a small, restricted and repetitive behavior, yet not disturbing in a pa ...
of cats, a symptom of obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), has long been associated with "crazy cat ladies". Mass media has drawn on this stereotype to coin the term
crazy cat lady syndrome to refer to the association between ''T. gondii'' and psychiatric conditions.
Notable examples
*
Florence Nightingale
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had many cats named after famous public figures such as
Gladstone and
Bismarck.
*
Edith Ewing Bouvier and her daughter
Edith Bouvier Beale
Edith Bouvier Beale (November 7, 1917 – January 14, 2002), nicknamed Little Edie, was an American socialite, fashion model, and cabaret performer. She was a first cousin of Jacqueline Onassis and Lee Bouvier Radziwill. She is best known for ...
had many cats living with them in their decrepit home
Grey Gardens. Reportedly, some 30 cats lived in the house by the time
Little Edie sold it in 1979.
* Bertha Rand was
Winnipeg
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's notorious Cat Lady, who for years battled her neighbours and
city hall
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to save her dozens of cats. Even years after her death, she still holds a place in Canadian popular culture.
Maureen Hunter's play ''The Queen of Queen Street'' is based on Rand's life.
Cultural references
Cat ladies in popular culture include:
Television
* In the ''
Adventures of Superman'' episode "Olsen's Millions" has
Jimmy Olsen receiving a reward for rescuing a cat belonging to Mrs. Peabody (portrayed by
Elizabeth Patterson), a Metropolis cat lady.
* "Grandma Puggy" (portrayed by
Steve Martin
Stephen Glenn Martin (born August 14, 1945) is an American actor, comedian, writer, producer, and musician. He has won five Grammy Awards, a Primetime Emmy Award, and was awarded an Honorary Academy Award in 2013. Additionally, he was nominat ...
) is a widowed grandmother who had cats everywhere and whose hair got on the guests. She was also mentioned in a ''
Saturday Night Live
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'' "
Wayne's World" sketch by Garth (portrayed by
Dana Carvey
Dana Thomas Carvey (born June 2, 1955) is an American stand-up comedian, actor, impressionist, screenwriter, and producer. He is best known for his seven seasons as a cast member on '' Saturday Night Live'' from 1986 to 1993, which earned him fi ...
) who trick-or-treated at the house of "some weird old lady who had about a gazillion cats and their hair got on my candy apple".
* In ''
Codename: Kids Next Door'', the Crazy Old Cat Lady (voiced by
Grey DeLisle
Grey DeLisle (; born Erin Grey Van Oosbree; August 24, 1973), sometimes credited as Grey Griffin, is an American voice actress, comedian and singer-songwriter. DeLisle is known for various roles in animated productions and video games. On Sept ...
) is a half-human half-feline villain who lives with thousands of black and white cats and possesses the power to control them.
* In the ''
CSI: Crime Scene Investigation'' episode "Cats in the Cradle", a cat lady named Ruth Elliot (portrayed by
Ellen Geer) is revealed to have been murdered by a young girl named Jessica Trent (portrayed by
Courtney Jines) after she and her sister Jackie (portrayed by
Jennette McCurdy
Jennette Michelle Faye McCurdy (born June 26, 1992) is an American writer, director, podcaster, singer and former actress. McCurdy's breakthrough role as Sam Puckett in the Nickelodeon sitcom ''iCarly'' (2007–2012) earned her various awards ...
) wanted a cat which Ruth was unwilling to part with as she considered it one of her children.
*
Angela Martin is a character on ''
The Office
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The original series ...
'' who is a cat lady.
* In ''
The Simpsons
''The Simpsons'' is an American animated sitcom created by Matt Groening for the Fox Broadcasting Company. The series is a satirical depiction of American life, epitomized by the Simpson family, which consists of Homer, Marge, Bart, Li ...
'', the
Crazy Cat Lady (voiced by
Tress MacNeille
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) is a recurring character whose real name is Eleanor Abernathy.
* In the Disney Channel series ''
The Suite Life on Deck
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'', schoolteacher Emma Tutweiller (
Erin Cardillo) has 30 cats in her cabin.
* Jefferson (portrayed by
Tyler, The Creator
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Okonma self-released his debut mixtape '' ...
) from the
Adult Swim
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TV series ''
Loiter Squad'' is a cat person.
* In ''
Futurama
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'', Hattie McDoogal (voiced by
Tress MacNeille
Teressa Claire MacNeille (née Payne; born June 20, 1951) is an American voice actress, whose credits include voicing Dot Warner on the animated television series '' Animaniacs'', Babs Bunny on '' Tiny Toon Adventures'', Chip and Gadget Hackwren ...
) is an old woman who lives alone with her cats and often uses nonsense words and phrases, such as "kerjigger". She briefly serves as the landlady of Fry and Bender, and holds a single share of Planet Express, allowing her the decisive vote for its CEO. She has been married twice, surviving both of them, and often dates. She once hired Kif Kroker as a male escort. MacNeille also voices the Crazy Cat Lady on ''
The Simpsons
''The Simpsons'' is an American animated sitcom created by Matt Groening for the Fox Broadcasting Company. The series is a satirical depiction of American life, epitomized by the Simpson family, which consists of Homer, Marge, Bart, Li ...
''.
* In ''
The Loud House
''The Loud House'' is an American animated television series created by Chris Savino that premiered on Nickelodeon on May 2, 2016. The series revolves around the chaotic everyday life of a boy named Lincoln Loud, who is the middle child and only s ...
'', Rita Loud's aunt Ruth (voiced by
Grey DeLisle
Grey DeLisle (; born Erin Grey Van Oosbree; August 24, 1973), sometimes credited as Grey Griffin, is an American voice actress, comedian and singer-songwriter. DeLisle is known for various roles in animated productions and video games. On Sept ...
) is a cat lady.
* In ''
Crazy Ex-Girlfriend'', the episode "Trent?!" features a musical number where the main character Rebecca and her friends make jokes about being cat ladies after Rebecca cuts off her sexual relationship.
Film
* In a key scene in ''
A Clockwork Orange'' (1971), the violent sociopath Alex DeLarge murders a
paranoid
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cat lady, for which he is convicted and sentenced to a prison term during which he undergoes behavioral training to become a vastly different person.
* In the
black comedy
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''
The End'' (1978),
Sally Field
Sally Margaret Field (born November 6, 1946) is an American actress. She has received many awards and nominations, including two Academy Awards, three Primetime Emmy Awards, two Golden Globe Awards, a Screen Actors Guild Award, a Cannes Film ...
portrays
Burt Reynolds
Burton Leon Reynolds Jr. (February 11, 1936 – September 6, 2018) was an American actor, considered a sex symbol and icon of 1970s American popular culture.
Reynolds first rose to prominence when he starred in television series such as ' ...
' distracted cat lady girlfriend Mary Ellen, who is too absorbed in her feline pets to react to Burt's news that he is dying.
* In a scene in
Tim Burton
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's ''
Batman Returns'' (1992) after being pushed to her breaking point by Max Schreck, Selina Kyle (portrayed by
Michelle Pfeiffer
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) transforms from a cat lady into
Catwoman
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.
* In ''
Catwoman
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'' (2004), Patience Phillips (portrayed by
Halle Berry
Halle Maria Berry (; born Maria Halle Berry; August 14, 1966) is an American actress. She began her career as a model and entered several beauty contests, finishing as the first runner-up in the Miss USA pageant and coming in sixth in the Mi ...
) visits a cat lady who tells her about how to embrace her new identity as
Catwoman
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, claiming an
Egyptian Mau called Midnight chose to give her cat-like superpowers.
* In ''
The Lego Movie'' (2014), Mrs. Scratchen-Post is a cat lady minifigure who is one of Emmet Brickowski's neighbors.
* In ''
Free Guy
''Free Guy'' is a 2021 American science fiction action comedy film directed and produced by Shawn Levy from a screenplay by Matt Lieberman and Zak Penn, and a story by Lieberman. The film stars Ryan Reynolds, Jodie Comer, Lil Rel Howery, ...
'', the video game ''Free City'' has a cat lady named Phyllis (portrayed by Anabel Graetz) where she needs help from the players to find her cats. After ''Free Life'' was established at the end of the film, Phyllis was among the ''Free City'' NPCs living in the game as she is seen with her cats that are in the basket that Dude is holding.
Music
* On
Venetian Snares's album ''
Songs About My Cats'' (2001), he features a song called "For Bertha Rand." The album features many samples of cats which are worked into Aaron's distinct break-core style of old-school
jungle music
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.
Games
* ''
The Cat Lady'' (2012) is a psychological horror adventure game developed by Remigiusz Michalski.
* In ''
The Sims 3''s "Pets" expansion pack, there is a new town called "Appaloosa Plains", and one of the many residents in the town is an elderly woman with lots of cats. The household may be somewhat challenging, as the player has to care for all those cats and fulfill the Sims' own wishes and needs as well. If the cats are not properly cared for and fed, then they may all be taken away.
Events
* CatCon, an event described as "The convention with cattitude", hosted seminars featuring actor
Ian Somerhalder and actress
Mayim Bialik, meet and greets with celebrity cats Lil BUB and Nala,
and an adoption village where visitors can meet and adopt a cat or kitten.
* National Cat Lady Day is celebrated April 19, as a way to debunk the myth that cat ladies are dowdy spinsters.
Now it's chic to be a cat lady! said CatCon creator Susan Michals.
See also
*
Think Think and Ah Tsai
*
Cat people and dog people
References
External links
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