Alexandra Dawn Wong (born April 19, 1982) is an American comedian and actress. She is best known for her
Netflix
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stand-up specials ''Baby Cobra'' (2016), ''Hard Knock Wife'' (2018), ''Don Wong'' (2022), and ''Single Lady'' (2024). The last of these won her a
Golden Globe Award
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. She won another Golden Globe and two
Primetime Emmy Award
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s for her starring role in the Netflix dark comedy series ''
Beef
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'' (2023), becoming the first Asian woman to win a lead acting Emmy. She was named one of
''Time''s 100 most influential people in 2020 and 2023.
Wong was a cast member on the
ABC show ''
American Housewife
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'' (2016–2021) and served as a writer for two episodes of the sitcom ''
Fresh Off the Boat
''Fresh Off the Boat'' is an American television sitcom created by Nahnatchka Khan and produced by 20th Century Fox Television for ABC. It is loosely inspired by the life of chef and food personality Eddie Huang and his 2013 autobiography ...
'' in 2015. She has voiced characters on the animated series ''
Tuca & Bertie'' (2019–2022) and ''
Big Mouth'' (2019–2023). She has also written and starred in the romantic comedy film ''
Always Be My Maybe'' (2019).
Early life
Alexandra Dawn Wong was born in the neighborhood of
Pacific Heights
Pacific Heights (often referred to as Pac Heights) is a wealthy neighborhood in San Francisco, California, United States. It has panoramic views of the Golden Gate Bridge, San Francisco Bay, the Palace of Fine Arts, Alcatraz, Presidio of San Fr ...
, San Francisco, on April 19, 1982. She is the youngest of four children in her family. Her
Vietnamese
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* Something of, from, or related to Vietnam, a country in Southeast Asia
* Vietnamese people, or Kinh people, a Southeast Asian ethnic group native to Vietnam
** Overseas Vietnamese, Vietnamese people living outside Vietna ...
mother, Tam "Tammy" Wong, moved from
Huế
Huế (formerly Thừa Thiên Huế province) is the southernmost coastal Municipalities of Vietnam, city in the North Central Coast region, the Central Vietnam, Central of Vietnam, approximately in the center of the country. It borders Quảng ...
,
South Vietnam
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(now
Vietnam
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) in 1960 to work as a social worker in the U.S. Her Chinese-American father, Adolphus Wong (1937–2011), was an
anesthesiologist
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who worked for
Kaiser Permanente
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for 30 years.
In 2000, Wong graduated from
San Francisco University High School in San Francisco where she was student body class president.
She went to
UCLA
The University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) is a public land-grant research university in Los Angeles, California, United States. Its academic roots were established in 1881 as a normal school then known as the southern branch of the C ...
, majoring in
Asian American studies
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. During her junior year, she studied in
Hanoi, Vietnam
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.
After college, she continued her education in Vietnam through a
Fulbright
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program.
Career
After graduating from college, Wong first tried stand-up comedy when she was 23. She soon moved to
New York City
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to pursue comedy and began performing as often as nine times in one night.
In 2011, ''
Variety'' named her one of the "10 Comics to Watch".
Soon after, she appeared on ''
The Tonight Show
''The Tonight Show'' is an American late-night talk show that has been broadcast on NBC since 1954. The program has been hosted by six comedians: Steve Allen (1954–1957), Jack Paar (1957–1962), Johnny Carson (1962–1992), Jay Leno (1992–2 ...
'',
''John Oliver's New York Stand Up Show'' and
Dave Attell
David Attell (born January 18, 1965) is an American stand-up comedian, actor and writer best known as the host of Comedy Central's '' Insomniac with Dave Attell.''
Early life
Attell was born in the New York City borough of Queens to a Jewish fa ...
's ''Comedy Underground Show''. She was also cast as series regular in the
NBC
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comedy series ''
Are You There, Chelsea?
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''and appeared on ''
Chelsea Lately
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''.
Next, she was in
VH1
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's ''Best Week Ever'', and
MTV
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's ''Hey Girl'' in 2013. Additionally, she starred in
Oliver Stone
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's ''
Savages'',
and as Kate in the film ''
Dealin' with Idiots''.
In 2014, Wong played Dr. Lina Lark in the
ABC medical drama series ''
Black Box
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'', opposite
Kelly Reilly
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and
Vanessa Redgrave
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. She guest-starred in three episodes of ''
Inside Amy Schumer''. Wong worked as a writer on ''
Fresh Off the Boat
''Fresh Off the Boat'' is an American television sitcom created by Nahnatchka Khan and produced by 20th Century Fox Television for ABC. It is loosely inspired by the life of chef and food personality Eddie Huang and his 2013 autobiography ...
,'' which premiered in 2015.
Randall Park
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, who was a main cast member, had suggested Wong for the writing role.
[ On ]Mother's Day
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2016, Netflix
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released a stand-up special called ''Baby Cobra''; the special was filmed at the Neptune Theater in Seattle
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in September 2015, when Wong was seven months pregnant with her first child. According to ''New York Magazine
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Founded by Clay Felker and Milton Glaser in 1968 as a competitor to ''The New Yorker'' a ...
'', "The special's arrival on Netflix is the sort of star-making moment that unites the tastes of the unlikeliest fans".
On September 11, 2016, Wong spoke at, and walked the runway during New York Fashion Week
New York Fashion Week (NYFW), held in February and September of each year, is a semi-annual series of events in Manhattan typically spanning seven to nine days when international Fashion design, fashion collections are shown to buyers, the pres ...
for Opening Ceremony's show. Also in 2016, Wong starred in the ABC sitcom ''American Housewife
''American Housewife'' is an American television sitcom created and written by Sarah Dunn and executive produced with Aaron Kaplan, Kenny Schwartz, Rick Wiener, and for the pilot only Ruben Fleischer. The show, which premiered on ABC on October ...
'' until its cancellation in 2021. In 2018, Wong's second Netflix special, ''Hard Knock Wife,'' was released. It was filmed in 2017 at the Winter Garden Theatre in Toronto when she was seven months pregnant with her second child. In the same year, she voiced the character Citrus Twisty, a soda genie, in an episode of '' OK K.O.! Let's Be Heroes''.
Wong starred with Randall Park in the 2019 Netflix film '' Always Be My Maybe'', a film directed by Nahnatchka Khan, and written by Wong, Park, and Michael Golamco
Michael Golamco is an American playwright and screenwriter for film and television. He is of Filipino and Chinese American descent.
Plays
''Achievers''
''Achievers'' (2001) was Golamco's first full-length play, and was read publicly in New York ...
. From 2019 to 2022, Wong voiced Bertie in the Netflix/Adult Swim
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animated sitcom '' Tuca & Bertie''. On October 15, 2019, Wong published a book entitled '' Dear Girls: Intimate Tales, Untold Secrets and Advice for Living Your Best Life''. She described it as a life guide for her daughters to read when they become adults. The book won the 2019 Goodreads Choice Award for Humor. In February 2022, Wong released her third Netflix stand-up special, ''Don Wong''.
Wong co-starred with Steven Yeun
Sang-yeop Yeun (; born December 21, 1983), known professionally as Steven Yeun ( ), is an American actor. His accolades include two Primetime Emmy Awards and two Golden Globe Awards, in addition to nominations for an Academy Award and a Br ...
in the 2023 Netflix drama-comedy series ''Beef
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'', and was credited as an executive producer
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alongside Yeun. For her performance in ''Beef'', Wong received a . She was the first actress of Asian descent to win a Golden Globe in the category. Wong won a making her the first actress of Asian descent to win a lead acting Emmy Award
The Emmy Awards, or Emmys, are an extensive range of awards for artistic and technical merit for the television industry. A number of annual Emmy Award ceremonies are held throughout the year, each with their own set of rules and award categor ...
.
In October 2024, Wong was featured on the YouTube
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talk show '' Hot Ones''.
Personal life
Wong met entrepreneur Justin Hakuta, the son of inventor Ken Hakuta, at the wedding of mutual friends in 2010. At the time, Hakuta was a Fulbright Scholar
The Fulbright Program, including the Fulbright–Hays Program, is one of several United States cultural exchange programs with the goal of improving intercultural relations, cultural diplomacy, and intercultural competence between the peopl ...
and a student at Harvard Business School
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. They married in 2014 and have two daughters. In April 2022, Wong and Hakuta announced they had separated. Wong has said that they remain "best friends". In December 2023, Wong filed for divorce citing "irreconcilable differences", and the divorce was finalized in May 2024.
Wong briefly dated actor Bill Hader
William Thomas Hader Jr.''Finding Your Roots'', January 26, 2016, PBS. (born June 7, 1978) is an American actor, comedian, screenwriter, producer, and director. He was a cast member on the NBC sketch comedy series ''Saturday Night Live'' from 20 ...
in late 2022. In April 2023, they reportedly resumed their relationship. They were seen together at the 75th Emmy Awards on January 15, 2024. In April 2025, Hader discussed how Wong comforted him and helped him replace his destroyed wardrobe after the January 2025 Southern California wildfires
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.
Filmography
Film
Television
As herself
Book
Accolades
Notes
References
External links
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1982 births
21st-century American actresses
21st-century American comedians
21st-century American screenwriters
Actresses from San Francisco
Actresses of Vietnamese descent
American actresses of Chinese descent
American comedians of Chinese descent
American film actresses
American stand-up comedians
American television actresses
Television writers from California
American women comedians
American women television writers
American writers of Chinese descent
American writers of Vietnamese descent
Best Miniseries or Television Movie Actress Golden Globe winners
Comedians from San Francisco
Living people
Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Miniseries or Television Movie Screen Actors Guild Award winners
Outstanding Performance by a Lead Actress in a Miniseries or Movie Primetime Emmy Award winners
University of California, Los Angeles alumni
Writers from San Francisco